01/24/2024
I’m going to go ahead and jump up on the soap box for a minute, even though I loathe doing so, because I want to put this out there for your consideration. Maybe it will lead to more mutual respect, which is what the whole world needs right now anyway.
How many of you have I played AGAINST, in a game, where I have complimented you on a nice hit, or a great play, or making a smart decision? How many times have you done that for someone else you were playing against? When I play this game, it’s not ME against YOU. It’s YOU AND ME against the game. Basebal is a game of failure. To succeed for even a moment, can be a monumental victory. It can change your entire week. Maybe your entire life. You might be across the field, in the “enemy” dugout, but you’re not my enemy. You’re my ally. We’re in a fierce battle against some of the most cynical and snarky gods in the universe, the baseball gods. They can be little MFers. No one should look across the field in anger or spite, but instead, with respect. Believe it or not, we’re all fighting very similar battles in life, and for 3 hours every Sunday, we can all share the SAME opponent. The game of baseball. It’s a love/hate relationship, and both feelings are strong, but never should the hate side be projected towards you human “opponent”.. That’s not what we’re out there for. Maybe you’re one of the ones that can’t see that yet. Hopefully someday you can. Baseball is not available everywhere, and softball is no substitute. I ask that you be grateful for the game being available in your area, because it wasn’t always the case. I played softball for 20 YEARS before baseball came to town. I tried playing it once after a season of baseball in between seasons. . . it was awful! It’s not the same, I don’t care what anybody says. There’s no game like this one and it is what you make it. Make it something positive. For yourself. For your opponent. And even for the fans/families that come out to watch. You’ll get out of it what you put in. S**t in-sh*t out, as they say. But if you show the game the love it deserves, you’ll be amazed at what it will give you back.
If all of this is over your head or seems silly, just know you’re still too young and maybe you’ll understand later, and hopefully before it’s too late.