10/09/2026
I was thinking as I watched my dog play with his half brother today that this is what boys do. They play hard. They’re ultra focused on their p***s and each other’s p***s. When people say “boys will be boys” what they’re talking about is how they harm women and that it’s OK to harm women because that’s what boys do.
But that’s not what confident boys and men do.
In experience, confident boys, who know how to play hard with each other, don’t harm girls.
Confident men don’t r@pe women.
Confident men dont need to exert power.
Confident men are relational people.
Confident men know how to love.
Confident men know how to receive love.
I help boys become confidentso they grow to be confident men who don’t harm others.