05/28/2026
The best time to get back on track is always right now.
And I think that mindset shift matters infinitely more than trying to be perfect.
I’m gonna tell you something I’ve been embarrassed about for over twenty years:
I bite the fawkkkkkkk out of my nails.
Not just a little nibble here and there. I’m talking shred.
They hurt. They bleed.
I do it when I’m anxious, sad, angry, excited, working, driving…all the time since I can remember.
And maybe there are worse coping mechanisms out there, but it’s something I haven’t been able to “fix” for over 20 years.
Not for lack of trying either.
I probably try twice a year.
I start strong, then something stressful happens, I bite a little bit, feel guilty about it, say “f**k it,” and spiral right back to square one.
And maybe that sounds familiar to you with your diet.
What’s clicked for me this time is realizing that stopping NOW matters, even if I already messed up a little.
Over the last 9 days I’ve caught myself biting.
I haven’t been perfect.
But instead of guilt turning into a full spiral, I’ve been reminding myself:
“Whatever happened, it’s okay…the best time to stop is still right now.”
Maybe you overate yesterday.
Maybe I caught a hangnail and started chewing my thumb apart.
But both of us can stop here.
Both of us can make the next choice a good one.
We don’t need to be 100% perfect to make progress.
We just can’t slash the other 3 tires every time we get a flat
I don’t think I’ll never bite my nails again.
But I do think I’m getting better at not spiraling.
And that might just be enough. ❤️
JL