05/19/2026
Integrity is growing into exactly what I envisioned it becoming, and this latest outing at Grappling Industries showed just how much all the hard work is paying off.
I wear a lot of hats — owner, coach, teammate — and this weekend every one of those hats got some glaze on it.
The culture was there.
Amanda Rae and Joe LaDuca ran kids class and brought in a new member.
Ielfri Heytm Hernandez ran another great Jiu Jitsu class and wrestling practice.
Aaron Ackley ran Muay Thai and did a great job tightening up some fundamentals with the team.
Adam, still hurt, came out to help coach — and I needed the help.
That’s what a real team looks like.
Kayed Riz started us off.
He came to us older and not in great health when he started training. During camp for this tournament, his weight kept dropping and he ended up making 155 with no cut after originally signing up for 170.
First match, he got caught. He said afterward he felt present mentally, but honestly by the time I got to the mat he was already in deep trouble and had to tap.
We talked, adjusted strategy a little, and after that he looked much more like himself. He competed in both gi and no-gi, got forced into younger divisions, came close to finishing several matches, and landed a beautiful takedown.
What we learned:
Competition feels different
We found a few holes to tighten up
And you are never too old to chase something difficult and become healthy again
Much love, Kayed.
Christopher Schultz was up next.
Former military. Quiet. Tough. Humble. Hard working.
He came back to Jiu Jitsu with us and won gold in the 30+ division at the last tournament. This time he got bumped into adult divisions and I don’t think he faced anyone over 25. The guy is in our 40+ class killing it.
He won gold in gi and took third in no-gi in stacked brackets.
At one point he was stuck in a kimura so bad I almost stopped the match myself. I thought about it a lot afterward and realized how “Caveman” my mindset can be about winning sometimes. Going forward, I’ll protect my athletes even if they’re mad about it in the moment.
Chris later told me he would have understood completely.
That’s trust.
Chris may honestly be the mentally toughest competitor on our team.
Excellent performance.
Both Chris and Kayed told me afterward how much the 40+ class has been helping them, and hearing that meant a lot. That class is doing exactly what I hoped it would.
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Joey Pasiak was next.
He had a TON of gi matches and won all of them, taking gold in a 7-man bracket.
In the semifinals he gave up a takedown after getting confused by inconsistent out-of-bounds calls. Joey’s response was hilarious and terrifying. Instead of getting upset, he just stood up and hit the guy with the Earth, and I’m pretty sure submitted him shortly after.
Joey is different.
Then he went into no-gi, thought his division was over, took pictures, I left… and apparently he still had more matches 😂
By the end of a very long day he took second in an 11-man bracket.
Joey is our young superstar. Keep your eye on him.
His demeanor, humility, humor, conditioning, and refusal to quit are everything I love in our athletes.
Hayden Litten is a veteran at this point.
He moved up from blue belt divisions into purple/brown/black belt divisions and had an absolute war of a tournament.
He went 1-1 on the day, but all the wrestling work he’s been putting in showed immediately as he continued the Integrity tradition of eventually running somebody through a table.
He had excellent north-south pressure and got caught in a sneaky submission by Cruton — another guy who trains with us often.
I offered $20 to the winner to make it interesting.
Cruton later got tapped by the guy Hayden mollywhopped, so Hayden ended up taking third.
Since Hayden didn’t win the money, I ended up giving him and Joey the cash I had on me for sushi after the tournament anyway.
Such a good day.
I’m proud of everyone on this team.
Thank you guys.