05/04/2026
There is a moment in every senior tax career when the work changes.
You stop being the person who knows the answer and start being the person who decides which answers matter.
It is a quieter shift than most people expect. No promotion announces it. No training prepares you for it. One day you realize the team is looking at you for a decision, not for a memo.
This is the part nobody warned me about when I was coming up.
Technical mastery got me to the table. But once I was at the table, the questions changed. Should we wait on this position, or push? How do I tell the CFO something he does not want to hear without losing his trust? Why is the project I asked for sitting in someone else's queue, and what do I do about it?
None of those are tax questions. They are leadership questions, and they show up whether you have practiced them or not.
The leaders I know who navigate this well share one habit: they stopped trying to figure it out alone. They found a small circle of peers who understood the specific pressures of the role. Not mentors. Not bosses. Peers.
Because the work at this level is not lonely by accident. It is lonely by design. Most of us were promoted because we could carry it. So we keep carrying it.
You do not have to.
What changed for you when you stepped from being the expert to being the leader?