05/16/2013
“DEPENDABILITY
Are your teammates able to depend on you? Can they trust your motives? Do you make good decisions that others can rely on? And do you perform consistently, even when you don’t feel like it? Are you a go-to player, or do your teammates work around you when crunch time comes?
To improve your dependability . . .
Check your motives. If you haven’t committed goals to paper before, stop and do it before reading any farther. Now, look at those goals. How many of them benefit the teams you’re part of—your family, the organization you work for, your fellow volunteers, the other players on your ball team? How many benefit only you personally? Spend some time working to align your personal priorities with those of your team.
Discover what your word is worth. Approach five teammates with this question: “When I say that I intend to do something, how reliable am I? Rate me on a scale of one to ten.” Include a superior and a subordinate in your survey, if possible. If the answers you get don’t match your expectations, don’t defend yourself. Simply ask for examples in a nonthreaten-ing way. If the average answer is “lower than a nine or ten, then start writing down your commitments as you make them from that day forward, and track your follow-through for one month.
Find someone to hold you accountable. You are more likely to follow through and develop dependability if you have a partner to help you. Find someone you respect to help you keep your commitments.
—The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player
TAKE STEPS TO IMPROVE YOUR DEPENDABILITY TODAY,
AND FIND SOMEONE TO HELP HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE.”
Excerpt From: Maxwell, John
But above all, my brethren, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or with any other oath; but your yes is to be yes, and your no, no, so that you may not fall under judgment. James 5:12