09/01/2026
When I’m in the home caring for a newborn, I always encourage Dad to find his own ways to be involved. Mom may be breastfeeding, but that does not mean Dad has to sit on the sidelines.
After a feeding, Dad can take baby for burping and skin-to-skin. He can handle diaper changes, help with bottle or supplemental feeds, wash bottles and pump parts, organize baby supplies, prepare food for Mom, or simply make sure she has water and something to eat.
And Dad, if you have to return to work, you can still create special routines with your baby. Bath time can become your time together. As baby gets older, if your family uses a bottle for a dream feed, that can also become one of Dad’s special feedings.
One more thing I encourage: help Mom with the reading. In those early newborn weeks, Mom can be exhausted, recovering, feeding around the clock, and trying to learn everything at once. Dad can read the newborn information, learn alongside her, and pass important information on to Mom. You are a team.
You don’t have to do everything perfectly. Be present, be involved, and build your own bond with your newborn. 🤍