09/06/2026
A TikTok trend featuring mothers crying while holding their children and reading excerpts from Lindsay Clancy’s writings has ignited a heated debate over postpartum mental health, social-media boundaries, and where empathy should end.
Clancy admitted to killing her three children—Cora, 5, Dawson, 3, and Callan, 8 months—in 2023. Her defense argued that she was suffering from severe postpartum psychosis and was not criminally responsible. Prosecutors disputed that account.
The case ended in a mistrial on September 4 after the jury repeatedly failed to reach a unanimous verdict.
The “Same, Lindsay” videos have drawn criticism from people who believe they risk blurring the line between discussing maternal mental illness and appearing to identify with the killing of children. Others say the videos are intended to highlight how frightening postpartum mental-health struggles can be and encourage mothers to seek help.
That distinction matters. Experiencing frightening or intrusive thoughts after childbirth does not mean someone will act on them, and mental-health professionals have warned that stigma can discourage mothers from seeking treatment.
The challenge for social media is finding the line between raising awareness and normalizing dangerous behavior.
💬 Where do you think that line should be drawn?