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Built on thoughtful development, correct basics, and sound horsemanship, we focus on patient, educated training that produces confident young horses, successful competition mounts, and riders who understand how to bring out the best in their partners.

One thing I appreciate more and more?A horse that is ENCOURAGED to have an opinion.That doesn’t mean they always get the...
06/12/2026

One thing I appreciate more and more?

A horse that is ENCOURAGED to have an opinion.

That doesn’t mean they always get their way or that we get no say in the matter…

But we should consider how silly it is to participate in a sport that involves another sentient being while simultaneously wishing they were more like a bicycle than an individual.

There is so much value in listening, even when their opinion isn’t that this is the best activity ever and they absolutely love to work. 💭

Sometimes resistance is confusion.

Sometimes it’s discomfort.

Sometimes it’s fatigue.

Sometimes it’s a hole in our training.

It is always information.

The goal isn’t to create a horse that never expresses an opinion.

The goal is to create a partnership where both participants can be heard.

Because a horse who is allowed to communicate is far safer, easier to understand, and ultimately more enjoyable than one who has learned there is no point in trying.

Today I was doing paperwork in my air conditioned office (aka the local Starbucks)A little girl, probably 10 or 11 years...
06/11/2026

Today I was doing paperwork in my air conditioned office (aka the local Starbucks)

A little girl, probably 10 or 11 years old, walked in with her dad. She was already dressed to ride in paddock boots and breeches, practically vibrating with excitement.

She couldn’t stand still.

And I couldn’t help but smile because I remember being that kid.

The one who didn’t get to ride very often, so every single lesson felt like Christmas morning. The one who counted down the days, replayed every ride in my head afterward, and would have happily done anything if it meant ten extra minutes in the saddle.

Watching her reminded me that sometimes we forget what a privilege this all is.

It’s easy, especially as a professional, to get wrapped up in clients, training plans, horse show schedules, vet bills, and the works. We can spend so much time and effort chasing the next thing that we forget the feeling that got us here in the first place.

But those pony camp kids haven’t forgotten.

They’re just thrilled to be around horses. They don’t care if the horse has FEI bloodlines or fancy training. They don’t care if their boots are a little scuffed or if they only get to ride once a week.

They just love it.

And I think there’s something we should all admire about that.

I hope that little girl had the best ride today.

And I hope the rest of us can hang on to just a tiny piece of the joy she walked through the door carrying.

📸 of yours truly at horse camp

If you’re ever looking for a reason not to do something, all you have to do is look on the internet.Someone will happily...
06/11/2026

If you’re ever looking for a reason not to do something, all you have to do is look on the internet.

Someone will happily explain that it is the dumbest idea anyone has ever had 🙈

Want to start your horse later? Too late.

Want to start them earlier? Too early.

Ride them more? Overworked.

Ride them less? Underworked.

Breed the mare? Bad idea.

Breed a different mare? Also bad idea.

Use a bit? Abused.

Don’t use one? Hippie.

Buy the horse? Terrible decision.

Sell the horse? Even worse.

At some point you have to politely decline the plethora of input, take a hard look at the horse (or horses) in front of you, and make the best decision you can with the information and resources you have.

Because if you wait until everyone agrees…

You’ll be waiting forever 😆 ☠️

One of the hardest things to learn in horse training is that not every problem is a today problem.Sometimes the horse ne...
06/10/2026

One of the hardest things to learn in horse training is that not every problem is a today problem.

Sometimes the horse needs another ride.

Sometimes they need another month.

Sometimes they need another year.

I think we get ourselves into trouble when we become convinced that every weakness, every hole, and every imperfect moment needs to be addressed today.

It is not possible to human whack-a-mole every issue all at once.

Things improve a little here and a little there, one issue at a time, as the horse gets stronger, more educated, and more confident.

Good training requires action, but it also requires restraint.

When we know better, we do better.One of the strange things about learning more is realizing how many things you’d do di...
06/09/2026

When we know better, we do better.

One of the strange things about learning more is realizing how many things you’d do differently now.

Not because you were careless…

Because you didn’t know yet!

I think every good horse person has looked back at old photos, old decisions, or old training methods and thought, “What was I thinking?!”

Growth often means becoming aware of things you couldn’t see before.

The goal is not to be embarrassed by who we used to be, it is to be grateful that we kept learning.

Because every past version of us was doing the best we could with the knowledge we had at the time.

Even if the old photos make us cringe a little now 😆

Using all your ring time ⏰ This weekend we took some horses to a schooling show.Two words…Schooling. Show.And if we’re b...
06/08/2026

Using all your ring time ⏰

This weekend we took some horses to a schooling show.

Two words…

Schooling. Show.

And if we’re being honest, the first word is the important one.

So when we had a baby horse, unbalanced, wrong-lead canter moment? I turned another circle.

When I finished my test? We had one more halt and a scratch at the top end of the ring by the judge’s booth.

Because we aren’t here for the Schooling Show Olympics.

We’re here to educate these amazing horses for all the bigger experiences still to come.

Someone told me recently, “You’re always succeeding when the goal is experience.”

I think that’s incredibly true!!

Don’t fret the little mistakes.

Your horse has no idea what the test actually was.

They don’t know where the circle was supposed to be.

They don’t know what the score ended up being.

You came here to practice, not to perform.

And if your horse leaves a little more confident, a little more educated, and a little more prepared for next time, I’d call that a pretty darn successful day.

Because these are the moments that add up so that someday, when we really are somewhere to perform instead of practice, we have this incredible bank of positive experiences to draw from.

There’s just something about summer evenings at the barn.The smell of freshly cut hay, the day’s chores finally done, th...
06/08/2026

There’s just something about summer evenings at the barn.

The smell of freshly cut hay, the day’s chores finally done, the horses happily munching in their fields as the cooler mountain air rolls in.

The fading golden light makes everything look a little more magical than it did an hour ago and a few minutes, I’m not in a hurry.

Every once in a while I can enjoy the quiet satisfaction of another day spent doing what I love.

🌅 💕

Two sides of the same coinOften, the things we want most come attached to things we maybe don’t want quite so much.Highl...
06/07/2026

Two sides of the same coin

Often, the things we want most come attached to things we maybe don’t want quite so much.

Highly supple horses with lots of suspension? They can be prone to hypermobility.

Sensitive, intelligent horses? They can be prone to overreactivity.

Powerful horses? They can be difficult to organize.

Confident horses? They can occasionally be convinced they have better ideas than we do.

Patient teacher-type horses? Sometimes not the fanciest movers.

I think sometimes we become frustrated because we want one side of the coin without the other.

We want sensitivity, but not sensitivity to stress.

We want power, but not the challenge of organizing it.

We want intelligence, but not to be outsmarted.

But those traits are often closely related.

The thing that makes a horse exceptional in one context may create challenges in another.

Good horsemanship is not finding a horse with no weaknesses, it’s learning how to develop and manage both sides of the coin.

Because often, the very thing that challenges us today is closely connected to the thing we’ll appreciate most tomorrow.

Today’s “needs improvement” moments likely look a lot like what was once your best work.I was thinking about this the ot...
06/05/2026

Today’s “needs improvement” moments likely look a lot like what was once your best work.

I was thinking about this the other day while watching a video of myself ride.

We broke to the canter and my immediate thought was, “ugh.”

But then I watched the downward transition back to trot.

Last year? I would have been absolutely over the moon with that quality of downward transition.

In the video, I hardly acknowledged it.

Why?

Because that quality had become normal.

I think that’s one of the funny things about progress. We adapt to it so quickly that breakthroughs become baselines.

Sometimes we’re so busy focusing on the next thing that we forget to appreciate how far we’ve actually come.

It’s worth remembering every now and then that the things we critique today may very well be the things we once dreamed of.

I wonder what the young mares (from left to right: Birdie, Samba, Bug, Mouse) were saying to the boys across the way (Ma...
06/05/2026

I wonder what the young mares (from left to right: Birdie, Samba, Bug, Mouse) were saying to the boys across the way (Maverick on the left, Champ on the right showing off his neck)

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