02/23/2023
The main takeaway from my last session ever with Tommy ๐๐ป๐
If you are in a rut simply change course. If you have tried backtracking and then following the same path only to be stuck in the same rut again you are not aligned with your goal.
We all tend to think that things are done a certain way because that's the only right way to do them. ๐ค
In my opinion, this couldn't be further from the truth. When you try to force yourself into a situation that doesn't truly align with what you want you will always be "in a rut".
Maybe that path just isn't for you and that is OKAY. Nothing is wrong with you because you don't align with the majority.
Embrace the difference you feel instead of feeling shameful for it. ๐๐ป
I am 31 years YOUNG without a marriage or kids under my belt. I haven't worked a traditional 9-5 job in 4 years. I don't hold a lot of value in materialistic things. I am covered in tattoos and am in love with all of them. I opt for holistic treatments to help treat my bipolar instead of normal meds. I dress however I want and honestly do not care what people think of me.
I used to think I wanted all the traditional things we are taught growing up and was actually on that exact path. But I was severely unhappy and couldn't live like that anymore. ๐
I have learned to embrace this and not compare it to my counterparts because I do not align with them.
The moral of the story is just because someone says "this is the way things are done" doesn't mean that is the way you must do things. ๐๐ผ
Change course, get out of your rut, and don't let anyone else dictate your vision of a successful life.
You can do this, I got you ๐ซถ๐ผ