09/02/2026
You can be doing a lot of things “right” and still end every week focused on the one or two things you could’ve done better.
I see this all the time with people who are incredibly successful in other areas of their life.
They’re used to holding themselves to a high standard. So when it comes to their health, they do the same thing.
If 2 workouts are good, 3 would be better.
If they hit their protein, they should’ve eaten more vegetables.
If they ate dessert Saturday night, the rest of the week somehow doesn’t feel as good anymore.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to improve.
But it can start to feel like anything less than your best starts means you failed.
A missed workout is no longer just a missed workout.
It becomes:
“I need to get my s**t together next week.”
Dessert isn’t just something you decide to enjoy.
It becomes:
“I was doing so good until Saturday.”
And a week where you did 80% of what you planned doesn’t feel like a pretty successful week.
It feels like proof that you need to try harder.
So Monday comes around and you tighten everything back up.
This week you’re going to hit ALL your workouts.
You’re going to be better with your food.
You’re not going to have treats.
“Be disciplined.”
And you’re right back to trying to meet the same standard that made you feel like you failed in the first place.
This is why I don’t think the answer is just telling someone to “be more consistent.”
We have to change what they believe consistency is supposed to look like.
Because imagine how different this feels when you don’t need Monday to get back on track anymore.
You can have a demanding week at work and still make progress.
You can enjoy dessert without feeling like you ruined the week.
And instead of constantly asking yourself:
“Why can’t I just be more disciplined?”
You actually trust yourself to keep going.
If “good enough” still feels like failure, I created a quick quiz to help you see where this mindset might be showing up in your own health.
Comment BELIEFS and I’ll send it to you.