04/22/2024
Neil Beisel
April 20, 2023
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My thoughts….
No one has ever said to me, they regret achieving a Black Belt. People all the time seem to remember what belt color they were when they quit, or when their parents let them quit. In every conversation they regretted quitting.
Parents come to me asking us to provide discipline, confidence, respect, and perseverance. But they will let their kids quit as soon as it gets difficult. I've never quit on a child or adult. I am surprised on how many people quit on themselves.
If there was a place that would always praise your child, encourage them to be better than yesterday and live by example the life skills we teach, why wouldn’t every child be involved in such a system.
As a young adultI found a family and a sense of belonging in martial arts. I found a purpose and passion I never knew I had. I learned that if I don't set a goal to get a certain color belt or Black Belt but rather make Taekwondo a lifestyle, then I may train for many years. (37 so far)
Taekwondo is not easy, you have to perform, train, and speak in front of people. You also have to be tested, fail, and under perform at times. You will experience many highs and lows.
BUT If you trust the process, instructors and commit to the challenge you will accomplish something everyone will appreciate and recognize as a major accomplishment, a Black Belt! The 2 belts we all know are White and Black. If you know nothing about Martial Arts you know to be a Black Belt it takes discipline, confidence, respect, and perseverance to attain such a notable achievement.
The main excuses are: No time, not in shape, cost too much, I could never remember all that..... blah, blah, blah
We can take this approach in every aspect of our lives.
Find the courage, try something new, step out of your comfort zone. You just may find a purpose and passion you never knew you had.