Sandra Hay, 115 Beach drive, Miami Beach, FL (2026)

04/21/2022

This is why you're NOT attracting high-quality partners ready to commit

Imagine this for a sec...

☁️ Being in a relationship with a partner who fully supports & understands your desires. You're not too much for them. You're the right amount of crazy, silly, ambitious, successful,...

☁️ Having a partner in the real sense of that word, ready to share your amazing life with you & create a beautiful future together.

☁️ Relaxing into your feminine, opening up to receive love & finally being led by a man.

And now Imagine being able to have all of this WITHOUT:
❌ spending 10 hours a day on dating apps
❌ compromising your desires & settling for less
❌ dating multiple people at the same time

Sounds pretty good?

& it's 100% possible.

BUT this is the reason you're not having it - you're NOT a match for your soulmate.

I'm sure you have a list of all the qualities you want in a partner.
You might even have a list of what your relationship would look like.

BUT do you have a list of WHO DO YOU NEED TO STEP INTO TO ATTRACT A SOULMATE PARTNER?

(this is the secret source that's helping my clients find their soulmate partners in a matter of days and weeks)

Here are a few Qs to consider:
1️⃣ Have you healed your past so that you can call in 'the one'?
2️⃣ Is your mindset aligned with attracting a healthy, long-term relationship? (or you still believe that guys are intimidated by you, that you're unlovable, that all men are the same,...)
3️⃣ Have you opened your heart to receive love? (or are you just going through the motions of matching & dating without really allowing love in)

Want to be guided through the journey to becoming a match for your soulmate partner who's ready to commit to a long-term love?

The doors to Match Your Soulmate are now open (for a few more days!)

This is an intimate coaching program that teaches you an embodied approach to dating so that you can attract a high-quality partner and build a healthy, long-term relationship with your soulmate

💌 DM me 'LOVE' for more info

04/15/2022

As an ambitious, independent woman, do you ever find yourself thinking….

💭 How is it that all of the people on my social media feed seem to have found “the one”... but I can’t hold down a relationship for more than 2 months?

Cause right now it feels like everyone else has their s**t together, & is achieving the ONE thing that you feel you’re missing: a stable relationship.

You can’t help but compare whenever ANOTHER engagement photo pops up on your feed

Thinking:
❌ "Why her? I’m achieving so much in my life… what does she have that I don’t?!”
❌ "Maybe I need to be more like her if I want to get a partner…”
❌ "Maybe I don’t need a man, I’m happy being on my own, I can take care of myself!”

Deep down… you’d LOVE nothing more than to find someone that could make you feel supported, loved & cherished for being 100% yourself…

To be able to come home after a long day at work & chat through the mundane of everyday life,
To have someone to share your world, & know you better than you know yourself,

Because soulmate love is what we all want, right?!

The truth lies here…

The barriers that you put up to protect yourself from pain, are stopping anyone from getting too close,
The reassurance that “you’re better off single” closes off your heart & mind to anyone & anything,

& I know that it’s scary letting someone in…

Taking off the mask that you wear at work that tells everyone that you’re that strong woman that can take care of everything

& instead, let someone special in & allow yourself to trust them.

This is exactly why I’ve created Match Your Soulmate, an intimate 6-week coaching program.

I’m tired of seeing women fall into the trap of keeping their barriers so high, that they block out soulmate love

It’s time to:
💜 Let down the barriers & make space for soulmate love to come through
💜 Open yourself up to receiving love by reclaiming your connection to the FEMININE
💜 Learn to TRUST yourself, & stop conforming to the belief that being the strong, single, independent woman is the only way to operate, & melt into true, soulmate love.

Sound like what you need?
💌 DM me 'LOVE' for more info

04/11/2022

If anyone deserves a loving, committed, healthy relationship it's you...

You're smart, gorgeous, funny, caring...
You have so much to offer.
You're made for a committed long-term love with a partner who'll support you, love you, adore you...
You're working on yourself all the time and know that life changes from within.

BUT if you want to attract a healthy, committed relationship you're dreaming of, you have to start by changing your thoughts, emotions and beliefs AND dating in an aligned way.

Luckily... Match Your Soulmate program opened for enrolment.

This is an intimate coaching program for single women who make a commitment to attract a soulmate partner who's ready for a long-term relationship NOW (without swiping for hours or settling for less).

If you want to learn:

💜 A step-by-step system that will stop you from attracting players, f*ck boys and snooze-worthy dates for good
💜 How to activate your inner magnetism so that you not only attract a dream partner but a dream life
💜 My signature 3 part Love Attraction Method to call in your soulmate (no more “Online dating just doesn’t work for me…”)
💜 Uncover your innate self-confidence, self-trust, inner guidance and self-worth, so that stop settling for less
💜 Heal the past pain and trauma from the previous relationships so that you attract a healthy, committed relationship with ease
💜 How to ditch toxic dating patterns and leave behind overwhelm with dating so that dating becomes fun, effortless and calls in high-quality partners
💜 The not-very-well-known ingredient necessary for manifesting a healthy, long-term relationship you’re dreaming of

This program is for you.

I was attracting player after player for years and then I applied the steps I’m teaching inside the Match Your Soulmate.

In 1 week after joining a dating app I matched with the love of my life,
in 14 months we were engaged,
in 18 months we were married…
and during that time I didn’t compromise any part of me, my needs or my desires.

Now I’m guiding you on a journey to become a match for the soulmate partner ready to love you, support you and share your amazing life with you.

👉 DM me 'LOVE' for a link to join

03/31/2022

I see you... You're ready to wave goodbye to emotionally unavailable partners, guys who are intimidated by you, ghosters, toxic relationships,... so that you call in a soulmate partner ready to commit to healthy, long-term love.

You're done with settling for less and ready to keep your standards so that you attract your soulmate match.

You're over snooze-worthy dates and giving chance to any guy because "he might be the one" and you're ready to trust yourself, your gut and your intuition so that you can take confident action towards a loving, committed relationship.

And if it still feels hard to even imagine a healthy relationship because you were stuck in toxic dating patterns, you are not alone.

I still feel the heartbreak, disappointment with yourself, wondering what you did wrong and how can you become better to please your partner.

No matter what your past or present looks like,
you have full control over creating your future.

And I'm here to make sure that your future holds a soulmate partner who loves you, respects you, sees you for who you are and who can't wait to commit to a long-term love with you.

That's why I'm hosting a 👉 free 3-day Soulmate Attraction Training where I'll share with you all the steps I took to match with my husband a week after joining a dating app (not by magic BUT by design).

This program is for you if you know that your time is now and you're ready to do real work to call in a loving, committed, healthy love.

Claim your free ticket 👉 link in bio

❤️

03/21/2022

Dating OR healing? This is where to focus your energy to attract a partner who's ready to commit 👇

I often hear women saying:
"I've done so much healing and still... no relationship"
OR
"I'm putting myself out there all the time and all I'm getting are ghosters or guys who are intimidated by me."

And, I know, it feels so defeating when you're doing all the work BUT the desired results are nowhere to be seen (ahem, ahem,... years of dating, hours on the apps, months of inner work,... right here 🙋🏻‍♀️)

Back in 2017, after 6 months of intentionally working on myself (and complete abstinence from dating), changing my beliefs, healing the parts of me that didn't love and accept myself, I was like: "Ok, Universe, work is done, where is my soulmate?"
And the Universe didn't send him to knock on my door.
Instead, they sent me a nudge: "Sign up to Tinder."
"Again?! I thought we decided that that doesn't work!"

But, I did it, and within a week I matched with the guy who became my husband 18 months later.

And what I learned (and unknowingly implemented):
dating OR healing on its own won't get you a committed, long-term love.
Dating AND healing TOGETHER will.

This became the basis for my Love Attraction Method that I'm teaching my private clients and now is your turn.

You're invited to 👉 a free 3-day Soulmate Attraction Training that will help you become a magnet to the soulmate partner ready to commit to you.

During the 3 days you'll learn:
💜 All the steps I took to go from emotionally unavailable guys to finding Mr Right
💜 Why you're attracting guys who are intimidated by you AND how to shift that so that you can attract high-quality men who are supporting you and your dreams
💜 How to date in a way that feels aligned, fun and enjoyable so that you can attract a healthy, long-term love
and much more...

Get a free ticket 👉 Link In Bio

03/18/2022

Here’s what women in healthy, committed relationships know:

Your man is looking for you, exactly as you are.
He doesn't need you to be less successful, more pretty, less needy, more easy-breezy,...
He needs you to be aware of how amazing you are and wear with pride your "flaws" and your strengths.

Right now, as you’re reading this, he’s out there looking for you.

In order to attract him,
you DON'T need to band over backwards,
you need to HEAL those parts of you that are stopping you from setting healthy boundaries, that are making you shrink and dim your light, that are leading you into people-pleasing & self-sabotage.

Women in healthy relationships don't lower their standards for anyone, they know that the right guy will meet each and every one of them.

💜 Save this post as a reminder & Share it with a girlfriend who needs to hear this today

P.S. Next week I'll share with you something very exciting that will teach you all the steps that you need to take to attract a healthy, committed relationship (soooo excited!)

❤️

03/04/2022

Every relationship starts with a relationship with yourself.

I remember when I heard this. Awesome! But how to do it? I didn’t have a clue!

Everything I found out there was self-care, day in a spa and a bit of journaling - very superficial approach (no wonder that results of it wear out in an hour or two).

So I started creating my process to create deeeeep self-love.
The one that will help me build confidence.
The one that will change my way of thinking.
The one that will help me attract my soulmate.

I applied these 4 steps ( SWIPE ➡️ to learn)

💍And within a week of going back to dating I found the love of my life

Which step do you need to focus on the most? Let me know in the comments 👇

❤️

03/02/2022

There was a time when I thought I would end up alone.

I remember those nights when I would cry myself to sleep because I thought that's what the rest of my life is going to look like.

With every “let's go with a flow and see how it goes”, the thoughts in my head would convince me that no man wanted to commit to me.

Every match that started s*xy chat even before the first date, made me think that the relationship I'm looking for is just the dream and that I should settle for less.

I didn't think I was worthy of the relationship I wanted.

I allowed myself one-night stands in hope that that would change his mind and make him commit to me.

I used to neglect my needs and desires to make guys feel more comfortable and... to make them stay.

BUT at some point... I realised that the only thing that was holding me back from finding my dream partner... was that unloving relationship with myself.

Meeting people wasn't the problem for me, I was constantly putting myself out there.

BUT meeting the right person... felt like a mission impossible.

Why's that? Glad you've asked!

Every relationship starts with a relationship with yourself.

And when I learned this:
💜 In 6 months I attracted the love of my life,
💜 in 14 months we were engaged,
💜 in 18 months we were married…
💜 and during that time I didn’t compromise any part of me, my needs or my desires.

That's why I've created Rise Up To Self-Love

I know first hand what happens when you focus only on meeting more people and forget that the quality of the people you attract is a direct reflection of the relationship you have with yourself.

That's why every week we'll come together to tap into one fundamental area of the relationship with yourself so that you can build unshakable self-love and confidence to attract your dream partner.

This is the SECRET CODE you were looking for to find The One.

If you're ready to activate your inner magnetism so that you can attract your dream partner with confidence, Rise Up To Self Love is for you.

👉 DM me SELF LOVE for the link to join

03/01/2022

If anyone deserves to attract the dream partner, it's you...

You're a woman who cares about others and has so much love to give.
You always help and inspire others.
You're successful at what you do and always strive for the best.
You're working on yourself constantly and know that life changes from within.

BUT if you want to attract the relationship you're dreaming of, you have to start by building a strong relationship with yourself.

Luckily... Rise Up To Self-Love program opened for enrolment and it's reserved only for action takers who're making a commitment to tap into unconditional self-love so that you can attract the dream partner with confidence.

If you want to learn:

💜 How to tap into deep self-love where the freedom to be you is coming from (there’s nothing more attractive than a woman who knows her worth)
💜 How to activate your inner magnetism so that you can not only attract a dream partner but a dream life
💜 Uncover where the confidence is coming from and how to cultivate it on a daily basis (I did it and so can you)
💜 My signature 4 part system to awakening unconditional self-love (no more “I’ll love myself when…”)
💜 How to create a daily self-love practice that will help you start every day high-vibe
💜 The not-very-well-known ingredient necessary for manifesting the relationship you’re dreaming of
💜 And every other step that helped me go from people-pleasing to prioritizing me and my needs

This program is for you.

I was attracting player after player for years and then I uncovered deep self-love.

In 6 months I attracted the love of my life,
in 14 months we were engaged,
in 18 months we were married…
and during that time I didn’t compromise any part of me, my needs or my desires.

Now I’m guiding you on a journey towards self-confidence, self-trust and self-worth.

Finding love is great BUT loving yourself is FREEDOM.

Are you ready to make this the best year yet and lay the foundation to attract the love of your life?

Sign up 👉 Link In Bio
Qs 👉 DM me SELF LOVE

02/26/2022

There was a war in my country when I was 5. My family and I had to leave our home and everything we knew. There is no deeper sense of not belonging than not being welcome at your own home.

We moved across the border to look for safer place BUT we were met with a rejection, fingers pointing at how different we were and why we don’t belong.

That left deep scars, feeling of not-being-safe-to-be-me and big walls to protect myself.

Swipe 👉 to learn how I became emotionally unavailable AND how that manifested in dating so that you can apply it and date more powerfully
……………
I was on both sides 👉 completely disowning who I was AND deeply owning every bit of myself.

This experience led me to help women around the world to accept themselves more deeply, tap into their own worth, trust themselves and build their own confidence.

If you’re ready for that journey, check out my 👉 Rise Up To Self Love, a live 4-week group program to help you tap into unconditional self-love so that you can attract your dream partner with confidence.

Sign up 👉 Link In Bio
Questions? 👉 DM me

❤️

02/21/2022

🤝 Self-love and the dream relationship go hand in hand (and if we really want to be precise, self-love is the foundation for getting the dream relationship)

That's why when I started loving myself (for the first time at the age of 30), I was able to:
1️⃣ find the love of my life in 6 months
2️⃣ lose 50 lbs in 6 months
3️⃣ start following my passion and started this business a few years down the line
4️⃣ invested time, money, energy in myself and my growth

And... I'm not any special.

This work and results are available to anyone.

Tomorrow I'm making them available to you.

I'm inviting you to a 👉 free 3-day Unconditional Self-Love Training where I'll spill the tea and share with you all the steps I took from people-pleasing, low self-esteem, settling for less TO stepping into confidence, self-trust, self-love and claiming the life and relationship I wanted.

We start tomorrow 22.2.22.

You, I and 80 women who already signed up will be together for 3 days.

Come join us and allow yourself to claim self-love and the relationship you want.

Sign up ➡️ Link In Bio

(I'm soooo excited!)

❤️

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