10/10/2017
The Koi Fish Metaphor
“The unexamined life is not worth living.” - Socrates
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Did you know that Koi Fish determine how big they get based on the size of the pond that they live in? The bigger their world, the bigger they grow.
Human beings are no different, only the size of our world is perceived through our very advanced brains. The walls of our pond are really just a collection mindsets, perceptions, & beliefs about the world.
There was a time when we could only perceive the world being flat – it’s what our eyes told us – until advances in astronomy expanded our ability to perceive. Now the world is round.
Another kind of perception is self-perception - beliefs about who you think you are. If you see yourself as un-athletic than you are likely to avoid people, books, & activities that would help you be athletic. You then create a Koi Fish pond that doesn’t allow you to grow into becoming an athletic fish.
You might even keep this belief about yourself alive by referencing a list of past experiences of being awkward and clumsy. This keeps you safe and comfortable; after all, who enjoys feeling awkward and clumsy?
The words you use to describe yourself and what you believe to be possible or capable of, play a powerful role in the human mind. As the saying goes, “Whether you think you can or cannot, you are right.”
A game you might want to play – a game of deep inner discovery – is to write down what you are afraid of, what scares you, & what makes you uncomfortable. Your list = the walls of your Koi Fish pond. When you lean into these walls – actually do what you do not want to do - you will discover whether your walls are made of concrete or more like the water particles of a rainbow.
“Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to Truth.”
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PS. Who says a horror movie or haunted house are the only way to enjoy the thrill of feeling alive inside your body :)