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Cierra The Inner Child Coach, McMinnville, OR (2026)

04/04/2026

Happy 34th birthday and 10 year anniversary to my best friend and love of my life! I wouldn’t want to do life with anyone else 🥹❤️❤️

12/25/2025

Merry Christmas from The Blanchards! 🎄

12/07/2025

My forever Christmas Party Date 🥰

06/12/2025

A HUGE freaking thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday Saturday and celebrated me! It truly means more to me than you know. And a special thank you to my wonderful fiancé for making sure I was celebrated. 🥰🥰🥹

04/03/2025

Happy 33rd birthday and 9 year anniversary to my best friend, love of my life!!! I’m soo grateful and happy to have you in my life! I love you soo much!🥰🥰❤️

03/20/2025

If I could go back and tell my younger self one thing about love and healing, it would be this: Don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.

And what you deserve?

Princess treatment. The kind of love I used to dream about in high school. The kind that consumes you, overwhelms you, and makes you feel a little crazy—in the best way. The kind that feels almost unreal, but it is real.

And the moment I stopped searching for it, it found me.

I am truly living my own love story. But what people don’t always see is the work that goes into it.

The time, effort, and energy we both pour into not just making this relationship work, but making it last—for decades to come.

Love like this doesn’t just happen. It’s built, piece by piece, in the quiet moments behind closed doors.

In the deep conversations, the breakdowns, the softness, the support, and the choice we make every single day to show up for each other.

It has been the most incredible, humbling, healing, and challenging experience.

A whirlwind.

It feels like we just met, yet next month marks nine years together. Time stands still and moves too fast all at once.

Every morning, I wake up consumed with gratitude and love for my fiancé. And the best part? It’s reciprocated. I never have to wonder if he loves me—I know he does.

And all of this? It’s because we both chose not to settle. Not just for love, but for the kind of love that lasts. A love that cherishes and worships. One that runs so deep, so mutual, so all-encompassing that it feels like home.

03/19/2025

Tension rising? Voices getting louder? Feel like your emotions are going to take over? Before you both say something you’ll regret, try this:⬇️

1. Pause & Breathe – Take a deep breath and consciously lower your tone. Arguments escalate when emotions take over.
2. Mirror & Validate – Repeat back what your partner just said in your own words. This shows you’re actually listening, not just waiting to respond.
3. Ask, “What do you need right now?” – This shifts the focus from blame to solutions.
4. Suggest a Timeout – If emotions are too high, take 5-10 minutes apart to gather your thoughts. But don’t just storm off—let them know you’ll come back to talk.
5. End with Connection – A hug, holding hands, or even just softening your tone can bring you both back to “us vs. the issue” instead of “me vs. you.”

When arguments don’t drag out, resentment doesn’t build up. That means fewer walls between you and your partner—emotionally and physically. Deep conversations lead to deeper intimacy, because when you feel safe with each other, you naturally want to be closer.

If you’re ready to stop letting fights ruin your connection (and start turning conflict into closeness), let’s work together. DM me to start your 90-day relationship transformation. Comment which tip resonates with you the most!

03/18/2025

I used to think love meant being completely independent and healing was something I had to do on my own. I thought asking for help made me weak and that needing reassurance meant I wasn’t “healed enough” to be in a relationship.

I also thought I wouldn’t find someone who would want the “unhealed” version of me. I thought perfection was the only way I would be loved. And it didn’t help that this way of thinking was reinforced growing up—both directly and indirectly. I was taught that if I didn’t have my “life together,” no one would bother creating and building a life with me.

But here’s what I learned—real love isn’t about doing everything alone. It’s about having a partner who holds space for you, supports your growth, and walks alongside you.

And healing? It doesn’t happen in isolation.

The right relationship will challenge you, reflect your wounds back to you, and give you the safe space to work through them.

If you’re tired of feeling like you have to figure everything out alone, let’s change that. The way you’re designed to connect, communicate, and experience love is unique to you.

When you understand that, relationships start to feel more natural and aligned instead of like a constant struggle.

The right relationship will challenge you, reflect your wounds back to you, and give you the safe space to work through them.

It’s not about being “fully healed” but about being seen, understood, and supported as you grow.

Tag a friend who needs this today. And if you’re looking for deeper support, my DMs are open.

03/13/2025

🥰For the longest time, I believed I had to do everything on my own. I was the strong one, the independent one, the “I got this” girl. But deep down? That mindset was exhausting.

I wasn’t just carrying my own weight—I was carrying the weight of every situation, every problem, every responsibility. Even when my fiancé offered to help, I’d brush it off. “I can handle it.” “I don’t want to be a burden.” “It’s easier if I just do it myself.” Sound familiar?

But here’s the thing: doing it all doesn’t make you stronger. It makes you tired. And the worst part? It keeps you from experiencing the kind of deep, fulfilling connection that comes when you actually let someone show up for you. Because love isn’t about proving how much you can handle alone—it’s about allowing someone to stand beside you, to lighten the load, to be in it with you.

That’s where dark romance came in. These stories showed me something I had never fully understood before: being strong and being supported aren’t opposites. The heroines were powerful in their own right, but they also leaned on their partners. They weren’t afraid to receive love, protection, or care—and it didn’t make them weak. If anything, it made their relationships even stronger. That’s when it clicked for me.

I didn’t have to keep proving that I could do it all alone. I could soften without losing my strength. I could trust my fiancé to handle things, to be my true partner instead of someone I had to constantly prove myself to. And when I finally let go of that hyper-independence? Everything changed. The intimacy grew. The emotional connection deepened. I didn’t feel alone anymore—because I wasn’t.

If you’re tired of carrying it all by yourself, let’s talk. In my 90-day relationship transformation program, I’ll help you break down those walls, rebuild trust, and create the kind of relationship where you feel safe enough to receive love, not just give it. And as that emotional connection deepens, so does the physical intimacy. When you stop holding back and start feeling truly seen and supported, the passion naturally follows. DM me or book a call—your future self will thank you.

03/12/2025

Spending your time scrolling through other people’s relationships will have you neglecting your own. Social media is one big highlight reel, not the full story. Nobody has a perfect relationship 24/7, no matter how flawless their posts look.

What you don’t see:
• The late-night conversations that saved their relationship—the ones where they had to be brutally honest, vulnerable, and sometimes uncomfortable to rebuild trust.
• The arguments that tested their patience—where they had to decide whether to fight together or against each other.
• The apologies that strengthened their bond—because real love isn’t about avoiding conflict; it’s about repairing after it happens.
• The intentional effort they put in every day, choosing to prioritize their relationship even when life gets chaotic.

If you want the kind of relationship you see online, know that it starts with YOU. You have to begin putting in the work.

With me, I’ll show you your relationship blind spots—helping you navigate those tough conversations that will come up (and keep coming up).

I’ll teach you how to talk to your partner, reconnect, and build the type of relationship that actually feels good behind the scenes, not just in front of a camera.

The couples you admire? They put in the work when no one’s watching. That’s why what they share looks so effortless and real. And once you know how to do the same, you’ll be able to spot the difference between couples who are truly solid and those just posting for the façade.

It’s time to create a relationship that feels as good as it looks. Let’s make that happen—DM me or book a call today.

03/11/2025

I didn’t just read dark romance for the plot—I studied it like a damn textbook. And let me tell you, applying some of those lessons to my relationship? Game. Changer. Here’s exactly how it leveled things up:

1️⃣ I Say What I Actually Want

No more beating around the bush or hoping he’ll magically read my mind. In dark romance, the heroines are clear about what they desire, whether it’s affection, space, or something a little more fun.

So, I stopped holding back and started expressing myself directly, confidently, and unapologetically—and let me tell you, men love that.

They actually want to know what makes us happy, but we have to tell them. And when I did? He listened, stepped up, and met my needs without the guessing game.

2️⃣ More S*x, More Intimacy

We’ve been together for nine years, and I won’t lie—things slowed down at times.

But dark romance reminded me that passion doesn’t just happen—you have to nurture it. The heroines in these books aren’t afraid to ask for more, flirt, tease, and keep things exciting.

So, I started doing the same—initiating more, making small gestures throughout the day, and allowing myself to be fully present instead of treating intimacy like another thing on my to-do list. And let’s just say… things have been very interesting ever since.

3️⃣ I’m Fully Me

I used to shrink myself in relationships—toning down my personality, second-guessing my thoughts, worrying if I was too much.

But here’s the thing: in dark romance, the heroines are themselves—flaws, fire, and all. And their partners don’t just tolerate it; they adore it.

That hit me hard.

The more I stopped filtering myself and embraced my full personality, quirks, and desires, the more my fiancé fell for me all over again.

The Lesson? Stop Holding Back

Your relationship can have depth, passion, and fire all at once. But it starts with you—being honest about what you want, keeping intimacy alive, and showing up fully as yourself.

If you’re tired of feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in autopilot, let’s change that. DM me or book a call today, and let’s make your relationship the best it’s ever been. 🔥

Cierra The Inner Child Coach

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