03/04/2023
âDonât try.â
-Charles Bukowski
A lot of us take on these hefty goals and giant events to prove something. Prove to our kids weâre someone to look up to. Prove to our parents weâre worthy of love. Prove to others theyâre wrong about what we are capable of. Prove to ourselves we are tough or we can handle this.
But when we shout, are we just drowning the silence of insecurity? Are we doing more to quell the fear that we are not enough? Not just doing enough, but we are actually not enough.
Those that go far in whatever we choose to do are not trying, theyâre doing. They do in order to master. Not impress. Not show anyone anything. But to improve for the sake of improvement.
When we feel the weight of expectations, stop trying. Just do for the sake of doing. Or donât. Find something else thatâs more meaningful to you.