06/15/2026
What’s funny is that when I embraced these things, I got the best results of my life, got fit, lean, and more in shape than I could have ever imagined.
FOR YEARS, I tried to fit into the generic advice + rigidity of the fitness industry.
Eat 1:1 protein.
Only eat low-fat protein.
Take your Tupperware with you.
No excuses.
No sugar.
No alcohol.
No grains, no dairy, no legumes.
Bodybuilding, or else.
Lift super heavy, or else.
If you don’t want it bad enough, you won’t make it happen.
I spent those years bingeing HARD, overcome by shame + perfectionism, frozen and dreading every Monday I’d “start again.”
Especially if you’re sensitive or neurodivergent - these rules will backfire within 3 days at most.
You need a different approach. One that was made for your brain and personality. You’re not a robot, and that expectation is killing your progress.
You do need structure, but not in the way you think. You need discipline too, but done a different way.
You need to learn to tolerate discomfort, but little by little and not all at once.
You need a system that gets you motivated to take action, not dread it.
Results don’t come without effort - but the RIGHT effort, after you really, really, really accept who you are.
I now eat the most I ever have, eat the most “junk”, travel and eat out of the house, workout from home 4x/week for no longer than 30-45 minutes, and have fun with food every single day.
If you want to learn my system that’s helped hundreds of former chronic dieters, lose the last 5-10lb once and for all, get lean and strong this to feel powerful + sexy on your vacation and in your clothes, make confident choices, join Summer Queen, my new 4-week fat loss + accountability group.
Enrollment closes TONIGHT. We start tomorrow - DM me “queen” or head to the 🔗 in my profile Ashley | Nutritional Therapist + CPT. 👑