01/11/2026
How do you heal from heartache?
Ok I can’t cover that in ten videos, let alone one. But! Here’s a step that needs to take place early - you need to listen to what your heart, mind, body, and soul are trying to tell you.
Right now? They’re freaking out and yelling at you and it just feels like noise and you just tune it out. Why? Because we were taught to ignore our needs.
Ok, how do you listen? You need to be still. You need to not do anything else. No distractions - no phone, no book, no journal.
Just sit still and say to yourself - ok. I’m listening. What do you need to tell me?
It’s really, really hard at first. And they’ll probably yell at you at first. You have to calm them down (regulate your nervous system) and prove to them you’re listening.
Literally treat the collective like they’re a person in distress who needs your help but you don’t know what kind of help they need.
This was a long one. But it’s vitally important for your healing journey.
Please let me know what questions you have. Comment or send me a DM. I’m here for you.