06/05/2024
Hi Everyone,
It's crunch time. I have until June 6th 7 pm PDT to make it count. It's 2X votes for the Supermom Contest. Still in 8th place, but I have a few ideas on how I can climb the ladder.
Would you still continue to do a free vote for me today and tomorrow? Takes about 30 secs.
https://thesupermom.org/2024/donna-umali
You don't need to sign up for anything. You can do it every 24 hours. You can even do a donation for more votes.
Prize money will be used for curling training and tournaments.
I wanted to talk about my dad since it's Father's Day month. This month and next month (anniversary of his death) is truly the hardest for me. Over the years and flash therapy, the memory of his death has less of a sting for me. Let me take a moment to note flash as a method of resolving memories was so effective for me. It happened over a course of a few 30 minute sessions and what used to be a heavy emotional charge became just a video memory that I have. I highly recommend it for traumatic experiences.
Anyway, can I share some of my favorite memories of him?
He used to take me to McDonalds if he ever wanted to "treat me" even when I would come home and visit as an adult.
He always believed in looking at the details. Of course, it wasn't very much fun when it came down to inspecting the quality of my chores. However, I am grateful that he gave me that awareness. I apply it in my life.
He was really good at climbing coconut trees. (I lived in Hawaii.) Maybe that's my kids are little monkeys.
He loved to play chess, and would spend hours studying the board. However, he was never as good at speed chess; so I had a chance to win when he ran out of time.
He loved his coffee. It was the same everyday. Mom would always make him a morning coffee to go!
Once in a while, he would randomly pack us in the car and take us around the island. We never knew where we were going or what we were doing.
He would always bring home stuff that needed to be built like shelves or furniture. He would give me the instruction manual and leave me alone to figure it out. He believed if you know how to read, you can figure out anything, and I think in this day in age where information is available, I believe it to be true.
My dad's greatest pleasure was thrifting. He would see value in things that seemed invaluable or underestimated value. I think it was mainly survival techniques from living in a 3rd world country, but it taught me to use resources wisely.
I believe that even if I had more time with him and he lived to an old age, it still wouldn't be enough.
I hope that he is proudly watching from above and seeing all the application of his lessons and all the cool things I have been able to do because of his love and hard work.
Please feel free to share your favorite dad memories with me in the comments below.
If you like what I have to share, please consider giving a free vote.
https://thesupermom.org/2024/donna-umali