Wayne LeSane

02/21/2026

Love Love Love♥️♥️♥️

05/26/2025

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03/01/2024

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✨ 📢 Shades is looking for 5 people who are open, ready and able to make a SERIOUS investment in themselves and their relationship(s).

🤔 HOW? Personalized Full-Access Non-Monogamy Guidance and Mentorship with .lesane and myself. A customized, collaborative and deeply supportive mentorship that will include:

✨Education
✨Emotional support
✨Transformational coaching
✨Experiential guidance
✨Community building

In both an intimate exclusive group setting and 1:1 access with us. That’s 20+ yrs of brain picking, heart supporting, movement making, soul being available to you via mentoring!

⚠️ ⚠️➡️ ✨Aaaand what makes this investment PROFOUND- ITS A 2 for 1 DEAL!!

Yeeeessss… your investment will ALSO sponsor FOUR (1 hr) coaching sessions with us, to someone not able to invest in the mentorship program but in need of NM support!

✊🏾 Who is this for? You:
✨You want a dynamic, fully accessible, deeply supportive and affirming opportunity for NM mentorship
✨Have (or want to have) faith in having fulfilling intimate relationships in your life
✨ Are open to creative and intuitive flow within an establish structured container
✨ Want a deeper connection with yourself and others
✨ Value personal wellness via community

You or someone you know 👉🏽 ask me for details and GET ON THE LIST.

03/01/2024

Much Love to my good friends & Thrivers
.lesane babygirl Xolani for choosing Healthier Options™️ A Recipe Guide to Heal & Thrive! 🙏🏽🥗📕

www.healthieroptions.com to invest in your copy for you and your loved ones!

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08/09/2023

This is something that has been near and dear to my heart. I have been wanting to have these sort of conversations for awhile now. I am drawn to helping men in particular to unlearn a lot of the patriarchal ideologies that don’t serve us in todays world. I want to create a space that allows men to process vulnerable feelings and emotions about intimacy, s*xuality and relationships. Looking forward to open dialogue, deconstructing, reframing and managing the ego.

04/12/2023

Loving myself allows me to be me, I give myself permission to break the cycles…

Today I turn 52 years of age. My journey of growth has not been an easy one, unlearning all the things that made me feel safe at one point in my life now I see how they were holding me back and giving me a false sense of security. I truly do appreciate all my struggles and victories, they have made me who I am today and have given me the ability to show up for others in need. I am appreciative of where I am at in life with the work I am doing. I realize this has always been a passion of mine so now I get to live in my authentic self. Someone described me as a world breaker when I shared with them how I intuitively feel and see things. I am here to shake up the world and redefine ideas around not just relationships but so many things. Thank you all who have been a part of my growth and joining me on this journey. I am looking forward to continuing to cultivate the relationships I already have and looking forward to the new ones to come.🙏🏽♥️♈️🙌🏽

04/10/2023

There are many misconceptions about play parties that I hope to help clear up. As well as many limiting assumptions and judgements about swinging and swingers.
I’ll share some perspective in an attempt to shift any negative perspectives.

*Swingers are old and creepy: That is not true, there has been a shift in the people that are attending parties, people from their early 20’s as well as people of color. Also I don’t think that Melissa and myself are creepy 🤣

*Only couples attend parties: While some parties cater to couples (and/or single women), single women and men attend parties too. Just because you are not part of a couple or in a relationship doesn’t mean that you can’t explore these parts of yourself.

Swinging is all about s*x: We have met some of our closest friends in the LS. Imagine being around a group of people who are willing to be open and transparent, and you can be yourself with while talking just about anything you can think of that has to do with s*xuality, kink, relationships and so forth. 

S*x at parties: You don’t have to have s*x at s*x parties. You can be a vo**ur. You could show up for the social aspect. You can play out fantasies or kinks. It can feel s*xually empowering, with or without having s*x. In the words of Dr. Zhana- you get to choose your own adventure.

If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me ☺️

02/02/2023

This is Melissa and she is amazing at what she does!!! We are really out here doing this together. We can offer you help in a time and space where we didn’t have anyone to help us. We have put in so much work with all of this and are confident with what we are doing, together and as individuals ♥️🙏🏽

02/02/2023

It’s never to late to start your journey. Creating community spaces so that you don’t have ti feel like you are alone in this.

01/15/2023

01/13/2023

Hello there! Let's continue building our community with interesting discussions and engaging posts.