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Candice Tamara Coaching Heal inner wounds w/o yrs in therapy
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06/26/2026

If you want movement with your SP fast..this is one of the fastest ways I see things shift in my 3D

& no, I don’t mean sitting there affirming for 14 hours while refreshing your phone every 3 seconds checking if they viewed your story 😭

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I have manifested many SP’s & I’m now married to one 🥰

Along my journey, I kept experiencing the same pattern in dating

At first they would pursue me
Ask to see me
Ask me to dinner

But then after a while, they’d still text me…but they wouldn’t actually make plans

& I realised I had a belief that people stop putting effort in after a certain amount of time

So one particular time, the weekend was coming up, we’d been texting, but they hadn’t asked to see me

Old me would have been:
“Why haven’t they asked?”
“Are they losing interest?”

Staring at my phone like a detective 😭

But instead, I knew how this worked now so every single time I thought about it, I started saying:

“I’m so glad they asked me to dinner”
“I’m always pursued”

That became my inner convo

& yes, part of me still felt triggered at times

But what matters is:
What are you returning to internally?

Because every single time my mind went back to:
“But they haven’t actually asked yet…”

I would go:
“No. I’m so glad we’re going for dinner”

& of course they text me the next day asking me to dinner

Because everything is reflecting YOU

Most people are living in:
“Why haven’t they text?”
“Why is nothing happening?”

& then they’re confused why the mirror keeps reflecting EXACTLY that back

But when you decide:
“Oh yeah, I’m so glad they text me”
“I wonder where we’ll go & what to wear”

…you’re living in the end

That’s why things manifest so freaking quickly when you do this consistently

Not:
“I’m so glad they asked me to dinner…”

Followed by:
“OH MY GOD WHY HAVEN’T THEY ASKED ME TO DINNER” 😭

You have to keep returning to:
“It’s done”

Even if the 3D hasn’t caught up yet

Still waiting for your SP to bang down your door declaring their love like it’s a Netflix romcom? 😭

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06/23/2026

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06/22/2026

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06/20/2026

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06/19/2026

If I was in no contact with someone and I wanted to change that using the Law of Assumption, this is exactly what I would do...

Firstly, I would understand that we’re never in no contact

Thought transmission is real

They’re always getting our thoughts & the story we’re telling about them

And right now, you are focused on:

“They don’t want me.”
“They’ve blocked me.”
“They’re with someone else.”
“We’re in no contact.”

So that is EXACTLY what will keep being reflected

1️⃣ I WOULD CHANGE THE STORY

I would start assuming:

“Of course they want me.”

“They’re thinking about contacting me right now.”

“They’re always reaching out to me.”

Because you have to live it FIRST

I know you might not be experiencing that in your 3D right now.

But YOU change the story first

Then reality catches up

So start focusing on what I actually want instead

2️⃣ I WOULD CHANGE MY SELF-CONCEPT

Because, underneath all of this is a belief that you’re not chosen

& if you don’t feel chosen, you’re going to keep creating experiences that reflect that.

So I would start telling myself:

✨ I am always chosen.

✨ I am always the priority.

✨ I am the only option, of course.

✨ I always receive consistent communication.

✨ People always come back to me because I am unforgettable.

✨ I am always on their mind.

I would start identifying as that person

Because right now, YOU are identifying as:

“The person they left.”
“The person they rejected.”
“The person they don’t want.”

& then you’re wondering why that’s what keeps showing up.

Change the story.

Change who you’re being.

And it will start to play out differently.

That is how I would use the Law of Assumption to break no contact.

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...

You don’t need to contact them.

You don’t need to force anything in the 3D.

Just change the story.

Persist in it.

& allow it to unfold.

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As someone who has manifested many SPs and is now married to hers, I’ll show you exactly why it feels like nothing is happening and what actuall

Last LA dump for now… ☀️Back in London now for our baby girl’s scan 🥹She’s growing perfectly and we couldn’t be more exc...
06/18/2026

Last LA dump for now… ☀️

Back in London now for our baby girl’s scan 🥹

She’s growing perfectly and we couldn’t be more excited.

I absolutely loved LA and have had the time of my life over the last few months.

Getting married there has to be the biggest highlight, but there have been so many special moments I’ll never forget.

Even though I’m sad to be away from my husband, Todd, for a little while, I’m so excited for our next chapter together…

Becoming parents to our little girl 💗

06/14/2026

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✨Why You Don’t Have Your SP Yet✨

The REAL reason there’s still no movement even though you feel like you’re doing everything “right”

And what actually needs to change to finally have the relationship you want.

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06/12/2026

Why You Don’t Have Your SP YET! 👀

A few years ago, I manifested an SP in one week.

But before that?

I’d spent FIVE MONTHS getting absolutely nowhere. 😭

I was affirming.
Visualising.
Thinking about them constantly.

And yet I couldn’t see any movement.

For five months my inner conversation looked like:

“Yes, they like me.”
“No, they don’t.”
“Yes, they do.”
“No, they don’t.”

😭😭😭

I was analysing everything.

Looking for signs.
Watching what they were doing.
Trying to work out what they were thinking.

Sound familiar?

The funny thing is...

I genuinely thought I was manifesting.

But looking back?

I wasn’t.

I was in the state of:

“I’m TRYING to manifest them.”

Not:

“It’s done.”

It wasn’t until the final week that something changed.

Truthfully?

I was exhausted.

I couldn’t analyse anymore.

And I finally got to the point where I just decided:

“It’s done, Candice.”

“They’re going to tell you they like you.”

I accepted them as mine.

Within a week?

That’s exactly what happened.

They told me they liked me.

And when we later spoke about it, they told me things that matched exactly what I’d been assuming.

Your SP is getting your thoughts NOW.

The lesson isn’t:

“Just tell yourself it’s done.”

Because if that was enough, most people would already have their SP.

The real question is:

Why couldn’t I hold that state for the previous five months?

The answer was my self-concept.

My nervous system.

My old story.

Part of me still expected rejection.
Part of me still expected not to be chosen.
Part of me still expected it not to work out.

So even though I wanted the manifestation...

I wasn’t consistently being the version of me who already had it.

That’s why this work matters.

Because if your SP is reflecting you, why would you experience a different version of them if YOU haven’t changed?

The truth is, my manifestation didn’t take five months.

The doubt did.
The wavering did.
The checking did.

The moment I finally settled into “it’s done”...

Everything changed within a week.

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