03/19/2020
Being homebound, I realize we’ve been gifted the BEST opportunity to be better humans-plain & simple. Doesn’t matter if it is for a day, a week or the foreseeable future: I’m clear I’ve paid a lot of money to have life altering training to learn how to lead the life I was meant to. Here is an equally amazing opportunity served up by our planet-today…no travel required!
A chance to take stock of how my life is filled with distraction or avoidance or unnecessary action/consumption (different than thinking bout all the things I’m missing out on) and to sit in that. The slowing down required (after the frantic TP run and grocery store scenes like in TWD) and the being with, in closer quarters to boot, those who are closest and who matter most to me…and how much patience and empathy that can take at times.
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Now’s the chance to LIVE my yoga-like really. Oneness, unity-albeit mandated- this has the potential of being a miracle in the making…even though it doesn’t seem that way.
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As a former professional stay-at-home parent (my favorite and hardest job), it took me a while to realize that the amount of tasks i HAD to get done were in direct correlation to the amount of yelling at my people I did…
Here are a few things to consider that have been life (guilt and regret) savers on my 2 decade path of being a homemaker:
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1-Less is More-not a popular thing to say, I know but it rings true to this day. Slow the eff down. When f I try to pack in too much, my energy is depleted, my attention is divided and I am frustrated by the requests that come my way (hence the mood, the yelling and the spiral that follows).
2-Pick 2-4 priorities that must be completed today- and Complete them.
3-Move your body (in whatever way is possible in the now-that means with the space, attire, body and tools you have. It may be that your 1 hour body break is broken into 4X15 minutes- let that be OK).
4-Be with your people. See them. Listen to them. Less fixing, more acceptance.
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Bottomline: Do Good. And if it hasn’t been going so well, begin again. And Do Good. Trust that you are Good.
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How are you living your yoga today? If you’re struggling, I’m with you in the trenches. More to come.