05/26/2026
Bill Gibson here,
Summer school was a new experience for me.
Here I am a 76 year old 5th kyu that never went through boot camp ( before ) willingly walking into a situation as a kihon trying to do what I could so the menkyos wouldn't stress and especially so you (and Sensei Lydon) were shown the proper consideration and respect. Luckily I've lived long enough to be of enthusiastic good cheer and not fret overmuch over various faux pas's and mistakes.
It was a good exercise for egocentric me.
Throughout the school I appreciated the kind guidance and gentle corrections from you and especially Mark P, Dat Tran, and Mike.
You fixed my thumb placement on Ikyo, gave us the walking mediation right left ( I use it on my daily walk to my garden), an appreciation of the importance of being a good uke, and some guidance to be a better uke. ( I particularly remember observing Kimberly demonstrating rising when there was a hole in nage's technique)
The menkyos were amazingly compliant ukes and gentle nages. I used the word "soft", in contrast to most of us kihones feeling "hard" . There must be better words than " soft" and "hard", maybe "stiff" and "flexible" or "tense" and "relaxed" or "defensive" and "welcoming". I was left with a desire to be more soft, flexible, relaxed and welcoming.
Mark P was So patient showing me the importance of the not-tense hand in tenshun nage and breaking the grasp in kata tori. Dat helped shiho nage and proper toitsu taiso, Mike checked me on all the criteria for my grading and showed me a sweet short form tenshun nage.
#1 I got great value out of experiencing the variety of menkyos, how it felt to work with them, and the different lessons and perspectives they so willingly shared.
#2 The experience of being a helpful enthusiastic kihon was good, I hadn't been so selfless in a while.
#3 The break half way through and the rec center was a good idea. The picnic I could let go.
#4 The one-on-one people experience was important, I feel I now have some real connections to Matt, Mark P, Dat, and Mike.
I hope to attend again!
BillGibson