04/30/2024
26 YEARS! Last month, Rob and I celebrated our 26th wedding anniversary! As I reflect on our life together, the word that comes to mind is HUMILITY. I posted about this years ago, so admittedly, I’m plagiarizing myself!
I’ve often heard people talk about the secrets to a successful marriage: have fun, laugh a lot, don’t take yourself too seriously, enjoy the simple things, etc. I believe all these principles to be true; but for me, one of my life lessons is HUMILITY. As a woman, I don’t believe this to be a subservient, docile stance, but instead, a powerfully independent posture to forgive and be forgiven, to seek understanding rather than rightness, truth instead of feelings, and empathy rather than fairness . There are seasons where we coast through life, and there are the rockier seasons where the only way for me to ride the tide is to embrace, embody and exude HUMILITY. The only way I can practice humility is with, through, and because of my Faith. I am thankful to God for these 26 years--I am humble before Him and my husband, not in shameful acquiescence, but with pride and dignity to always pursue truth and hope.
Ephesians 2:3b-8, “In humility, value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interests of others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage, rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross.”
Happy Anniversary to my best friend and husband. I love you more than words can say!