09/05/2026
“Just one more handful.”
I walked back and grabbed another stack of oreos from the cabinet.
As I put the container back and closed the door…I knew this wouldn’t be the last stack.
But I didn’t want more.
I didn’t need more.
More didn’t fit my macros, and honestly, I was just eating to…well…EAT.
As I popped just one in my mouth, I quickly put the rest back and threw the whole package in the freezer.
“Well, see…I can have some later because now they’ll last forever!”
(This was my thought with them being in the freezer…even though they would have lasted basically forever anyway, haha.)
But guess what?
I didn’t go back for another stack. Or dig into them the rest of the week.
That break in the pattern - that change in the availability of the oreos and shift in my “environment” - broke the behavior and “one more” habit.
This simple act of freezing something made it that much “harder” to get it and even made me feel like it would be there whenever I did actually want it in the future.
It also put the oreos out of sight because I didn’t really open that drawer in the freezer.
It was that pattern interrupt that instantly changed my ability to repeat a habit.
Yes…technically a lot of the candy or such I would freeze over the coming months and even years was freaking DELICIOUS frozen…but that didn’t change the fact that freezing it cut me off.
The act of freezing it STUCK and ended my “one more” game.
I mention this because I think so often we try to force new habits without really changing the patterns behind them OR the environment we are in.
And that’s why willpower does fade. Self-control disappears.
We’re constantly surrounded by all the things that call us back. By all the behaviors and actions that are so easy and second nature to repeat.
We need to CHANGE those signals to trigger a new response.
And this is where we can use the fact that we are all…well…LAZY to our advantage. (Or at least I am!)
The easier a new habit is to do, the more likely we are to do it.
This same thing goes for an old habit…
The harder that old habit is to do, the easier it is to NOT do it.
For me, as weird as it sounds, freezing the oreos or candy made it HARDER to play the “one more” game.
Silly? Maybe.
But it did.
And little things like that CAN help…we just have to find the triggers and changes we personally need to interrupt our old habits and routines.
The more impossible we make it to repeat a habit we want to break, the easier we make it on ourselves to make a change.
So even just NOT getting the food may be a great start if you really struggle with not eating something when it is there.
But if that isn’t an option because someone else in your house wants it to be there? Maybe you put it high up where only they can reach it.
Or maybe you ask them to put it in a cabinet you don’t use so it stays out of sight.
The key is recognizing the things that TRIGGER a behavior and make it easy to repeat - and then CHANGING those things to make the same actions harder and our new habits easier to stick to.
So on that note…
What’s one way you can create an interruption in a habit you’re doing now and make it harder - or even IMPOSSIBLE - to do?
What’s one way you can make the new habit easier and more front and center in your mind?
And if you keep telling yourself you just need to be more disciplined…
Consider that discipline may NOT actually be the problem.
Because if your environment, routines and plan keep making the OLD behavior the easiest option, you’re forcing yourself to fight the same battle over and over again.
That isn’t a willpower problem.
And pushing yourself harder won’t necessarily solve it.
You have to recognize what keeps triggering the pattern - and redesign things so the behaviors that move you forward become easier to repeat.
That’s exactly what we help you do through our 1-1 coaching.
We don’t just hand you another “perfect” plan and expect you to force your life to fit it.
We help you build a plan around your body, your lifestyle and even the patterns that have caused you to struggle in the past - so consistency doesn’t always have to feel like a fight.
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Cori
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I'm Cori, Head Coach + Owner. I’ve spent nearly two decades coaching women 40+ and have helped thousands navigate fat loss and body recomposition to build stronger bodies, feel more confident, and create results that actually fit their lives.