01/24/2024
Prove them wrong...
The haters, naysayers, and judgers will always show up!
Whether you are winning or losing, outsiders are always going to be observing and unfortunately, casting judgement.
I mean, from the outside looking in, we have our own opinions, perceptions, and life experiences we each contend with. Am I right?
So when you start thinking about wanting to quit your job, the traditional mindset people are going to flip their lid!
❌Who do you think you are?
❌That’s nonsense!
❌Your career is secure, a business is not...
❌You are wasting your time and degree on this “dream”...
While the daggers may be painful, consider this.
Each one of us is looking through our own lens. Those comments and judgements are actually the beliefs that individual is struggling with.
It’s not about YOU!
Read that again.
If they are limited in their own beliefs it’s because of their point of view and experiences.
While we can’t fault them for that, it can be outright annoying and deflating.
What’s a solution beyond simply losing your marbles or worse, giving up on your dreams?
YOU.PROVE.THEM.WRONG.
Yup, I said what I said.
You show them that despite their remarks, you shall persist. You will push forward. You will keep going. You won’t give up!
I know that’s easier said than done, but there are ways to do this where you feel empowered.
See, I’ve found that if we don’t surround ourselves with good energy and people, we can fall down the rabbit hole of doom and gloom. It’s no bueno, my friend.
Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt.
On the flipside, when we are in community and guided by experts who have paved the path we desire pursuing, some pretty magical things happen.
We learn new ways to dream big, expand our vision, strengthen our mindset, and lean on a tight knit community that feels like a supportive container.
And on those days that the naysayers say pesky things, you can turn to the tools and resources you have gained and not let those judgy lurkers weigh you down.
It’s glorious.
It’s one of my most favorite parts of the multiple group coaching experiences I’ve participated in. On the hard days, I found solace in leaning on them.
GUARANTEED - I could vent and they would always be there to pick me up.
When you venture on the journey of wanting to quit your job, you will be thrown a variety of curveballs. One of the keys to navigating it confidently is to surround yourself with supportive people and a mentor who has been in your shoes.
It’s the reason I cultivated the Dream Beyond Your Job Experience program.
If you have tucked away your dream of quitting your job to the proverbial “someday” corner of your heart, I would love to invite you to join us.
This is an intimate 3 month program to reignite your passions and develop your confidence to leave your job on your terms.
Surround yourself with community and be a part of this customized experience: https://mailchi.mp/aaa82225b5ba/dreamer-experience