Adam Lane Smith - Attachment Specialist

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09/11/2026

“I told him what I wanted.”

But did you tell him what you wanted or what you wanted him to do?

Laura Doyle shares how years of fighting over the dishes shifted when she stopped assigning the task and simply said, “I would love a clean kitchen.”

Sometimes your partner needs a clearer target than you think.

More with Laura Doyle on the latest episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast .

09/10/2026

Breakup threats can make someone try harder while trusting their partner less.

When leaving is threatened during every disagreement, the pressure becomes keeping the other person happy. Resentment can grow even while someone works harder to hold the relationship together.

Have you ever been in a relationship where threats to leave were common? Let me know in the comments.

Every marriage eventually reaches the point where you stop being married to the person you imagined and start dealing wi...
09/10/2026

Every marriage eventually reaches the point where you stop being married to the person you imagined and start dealing with the person who’s actually there.

Their habits, their needs, their flaws, their preferences, and every way they’re different from what you pictured.

Most couples hit this and either fight their way through it badly or go quiet and drift. Stage 3 is where you learn to say what you actually want without it landing as criticism, disagree without threatening the relationship, and hear something uncomfortable without shutting down or lashing out. Couples who never build that skill are the ones I see stall out in Stage 3 for years, or split.

My team and I help couples break through into the best relationship of their life - fast. If you’re ready to do the work, send me a DM. Very limited couples coaching slots available.

09/10/2026

Following OnlyFans models is the same thing as watching p**n.

A full video may deliver a bigger hit, but those accounts hit the same brain regions tied to how he relates to you. If he is obsessing over them, it changes how he treats you at home.

Show him this if he insists that it’s different.

09/10/2026

Ladies, agree or disagree with what I’ve said here? Let me know.

When couples stop having s*x, they usually look for the problem in the bedroom. But by the time you get there, you may h...
09/10/2026

When couples stop having s*x, they usually look for the problem in the bedroom.

But by the time you get there, you may have spent the entire day barely touching, flirting, or showing any affection unless one of you wants something more.

That changes the meaning of touch over time.

Your wife may enjoy kissing you, but if kissing you back regularly turns into an invitation for s*x, she now has to think twice about a kiss that used to be simple affection.

This is one of five habits I cover in my new YouTube video about how couples slowly lose their s*x lives and what they can do to rebuild them.

Comment INTIMACY and I’ll send you the link.

09/09/2026

Gratitude can feel almost insulting when you’re already thinking, “I do everything. Who’s thanking me?”

But Laura Doyle shares how one woman’s experiment with three gratitudes a day changed the tone of her marriage within days.

Laura Doyle (Laura Doyle ) and I dive deeper on the results at the latest episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast .

Real loyalty is more than not cheating.It’s what you do with your partner’s trust when they’re not in the room. It’s kee...
09/09/2026

Real loyalty is more than not cheating.

It’s what you do with your partner’s trust when they’re not in the room. It’s keeping the agreements you made when breaking them would be easier. It’s owning what you did instead of finding a reason why it shouldn’t count.

It’s being someone your partner doesn’t have to keep second-guessing.

What’s a moment when your partner’s loyalty showed up in a way that surprised you?

09/09/2026

Unresolved problems can make divorce feel like the only option.

Repair starts with talking openly about what both partners need, working as a team, and agreeing on the future they want to build together. Those conversations give a couple a direction beyond repeating the same arguments.

If you want help getting started, click the link in my bio for resources on repairing your marriage.

09/09/2026

Brutal honesty time: are you grateful for your partner? Yes, or no?

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