06/09/2026
Teaching Our Kids to Set Goals
One of the things I believe most strongly is that every student should declare a goal and commit to competing for at least one tournament season.
Why?
Because the goal isn't just to win medals. The goal is to build a better person.
Competition provides both an external education (improving martial arts skills) and an internal education (developing character). It teaches lessons that are difficult to learn any other way.
Let me share a great example.
For those who don't know Joe, last year he became a District Champion. After that accomplishment, he declared an even bigger goal—to become a State Champion in Traditional Martial Arts.
This year, he achieved that goal.
But the trophy isn't what makes me proud.
Over the past year, Joe has developed confidence, perseverance through both victories and disappointments, a stronger work ethic, dedication, sportsmanship, and the ability to accept coaching and advice. He has also learned how far the support of family can help carry you toward your dreams.
Below are two performances from Joe, exactly one year apart.
Both performances are excellent, but I think you'll notice something deeper than improved technique.
You'll see a young man who has become more confident, disciplined, and self-assured. You'll see leadership developing from the inside out.
What makes me even prouder is that Joe freely shares his knowledge and encourages other students without hesitation. That's what true leadership looks like.
The benefits of goal setting are clear. When children learn to set a goal, create a plan, work through challenges, and achieve something meaningful, they gain skills that will serve them for the rest of their lives.
Congratulations, Joe. We are proud of the leader you are becoming.
