05/30/2023
Advice That You Want
Back in 2014, Dax, my Mind Map mentor and friend, told me something that stuck with me.
‘You need to be given permission to Coach’.
This applies so much to life.
And advice.
When you give someone advice that they don’t ask for, they despise it.
They reject it.
They take it as judgment.
This is just how the human brain is wired.
I am always conscious of this.
Its one of the reasons I don’t take offense to unwarranted advice and it’s also one of the reasons I have a highly select group of people I ask for advice when I am trying to make a big decision.
Last week, I spoke with 3 of them. 2 gave me one answer and 1 gave me another.
The nail in the coffin was my great friend Frank. He told me what I needed to hear.
It was against what my ego wanted but that didn’t matter.
Lo and behold, I have a very happy brother and future SIL now, because the decision to go to their wedding in Italy was made. I was adamant about not going up until then.
No matter what your situation, have people that you can trust to give you the hard truths sometimes. And ask them when needed.
Be Unconventional - Kyle Newell
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