06/07/2022
This is a new friend of mine.
He has not had the gentlest of starts, but he is an extremely lucky boy who landed himself in the care of a patient and compassionate owner.
He is very thoughtful. He is one of the most thoughtful horses I’ve ever worked with actually. Like all horses, he wants to understand. He wants very, very badly to be a good boy. When you propose a concept to him, he sits with it, often closes his eyes, breathes deeply into his body. Once he has categorized the concept in his brain, however long that takes, then he gives a massive calming signal.
It would be very easy to get frustrated with him. It is very easy to assume he is ignoring you or that he isn’t engaged.
“Hey! Pay attention”
No, you pay attention. Is he moving away? No. Is he even fidgeting? No. Is his mouth tight? Is there tension around his eyes? He is processing.
When you give this horse the time he needs, he then gives off the most demonstrative signals. He screams “Oh! I get it!” with his body. Next he is proud, and more confident than before. He is ready for the next lesson.
I challenge you to not assume that your horse isn’t paying attention to you. I challenge you to have some faith that your horse is sufficiently intelligent to be paying attention to you even when they aren’t staring directly at you.
There are different ways of learning. Are you a visual learner? Are you someone who has to physically do something to learn it? Do you learn by hearing information? Do you learn by a combination of tactics?
Horses are individuals as well. They learn in different ways, so just because it doesn’t look like what you think it should doesn’t mean they aren’t learning.
Horses are extraordinarily intelligent. They show us time and time again. Why on earth would you just assume that your horse isn’t learning if they look away or take pause? Try to think of it instead as your horse saying “hang on one second, let me make sure I understand.”