07/29/2026
This is me and Aly, a lovely resident from the Harvard Alpaca Ranch. Look at her smile! She’s so special.
I’ve driven past the alpaca ranch dozens of times wanting to stop, and this past weekend I finally did.
I visited because I finally had a “valid reason” to - my bestie in from out of town, kids needing an adventure, perfect Sunday weather.
But let’s be real for a moment. I could have stopped any time I really wanted. I just did not give myself permission to. There was always something more important to do.
And… 30 minutes wandering among the alpacas, asking our guide questions (thanks, Riley!), noticing new smells, looking at these fuzzy faces, wondering if alpacas spit like camels and llamas (yes, they do, but thankfully not on my visit), was exactly what I needed to relax and just BE for a little while. The constant to-do list running through my brain went blissfully silent.
This is what I mean when I talk about nervous system regulation. It’s not always breathwork and tremoring and sitting with discomfort. Sometimes it’s stopping at the alpaca farm, finding the whimsy, doing the fun thing you’ve been wanting to do for months when life had more serious things to do.
Life always has more serious things to do. Stop anyway.
What’s your alpaca farm?
🪷shaileen🪷
Shaileen Patton