08/30/2026
And this is getting harder for our girls because they’re growing up with cell phones and apps that give them constant feedback about where they stand.
Likes. Views. Snap streaks. Who responded. Who didn’t. Who was invited. Who was left out. Who has more followers. Who’s getting attention.
Their brains are still developing, which means they don’t yet have the same ability we do as adults to step back and say, “This doesn’t actually mean anything about me.”
So when they’re left on read, see their friends together without them, don’t get the likes, or feel like someone else is more popular, it can very quickly become:
There must be something wrong with me.
This is why we have to intentionally teach our girls to separate what happens around them from who they actually are.
Her value cannot live in an app.
It cannot live in someone else choosing her.
It cannot live in how she looks, performs on a sports field, achieves, or how much attention she gets.
It has to become something she knows belongs to her. 🥰🥰🥰
If your daughter is struggling with friendships, comparison, rejection, confidence, or feeling like she isn’t enough, DM me. I coach girls on exactly this. In just a few calls they are showing up completely different in their own lives 🥰