06/25/2013
FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE!!!
Some days its definitely easier to complain about what we see about ourselves that we don't like so much...because just that...its easy...requires no effort other than opening our mouths to say words.
If we actually forced ourselves to point out things we liked about ourselves, we hold ourselves accountable to the maintenance of such, or even going a step farther and pointing out something that, okay we think needs improvement, but not in a complaining fashion, but motivated, "I want to improve this" kind of way...well, that could REALLY take effort.
Any time someone in front of me says, ugh, but look at this pooch here, or these dimples here, or this flab here...I make them instantly tell me something they love about themselves.
Re-think how you speak of and look at yourselves.
Remember...YOU are the one who has had the biggest part (on this earth) in how you appear!
If you don't like it, do something about it!
Otherwise, just love yourself as you are...there are enough other people out there who will criticize you without your help!
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