10/17/2026
It has been a while since our last update on Coach Rich. He is still hanging in there, but I remember him as a real fighter and one who will not give up! He can't believe that he has made it this long, after being told he had between 2 days and 2 weeks to live, and that was JUNE 17 !
We had a long, friendly chat, about the past, present, & future. The past was mostly about our days at UW-Milw, including breaking in the brand new Klotche center / sports facility. We also shared almost 45 years since I moved back east, we both married & had families; places we went & things we did. Rich loved talking about his children (the youngest is now 36, I think). He loves them all so much, and has told me so many stories about how pleased and proud he was-and still is-of all of them, & now including his grandchildren too (one is in High school now?) He obviously is a very blessed man!
He also mentioned his "other family", from extended family, friends, coworkers, and people from places he lived, many church parishes, the army, and 50 years of coaching! He loved coaching and everyone he coached! He has competed himself into State tourney in High Scool and to the NCAA Division 1 Nationals in college, then coached others to similar heights. I know he enjoyed the successes of others more than his own.
Now to the present. Plain and simple, the doctor says there is nothing that can be done medically, including any surgeries, to improve his heart. Doc was astounded how he could still be alive in June! He is still going 4 months later! He has been in hospice care for about 2 months, but is still at his home. Rich is a man of very solid faith, convinced that God is blessing him with each day. He thanks God for every day and humbly asks for at least one more. Rich is also grateful for all of his visitors and those who have called, emailed, texted, etc... and for the various gifts he has received.
The future? Who knows about that. Rich would really love to make it to his 50th High School class reunion next summer. He knows that is very unlikely, but he did see many people at his 50th Homwcoming football game a few weeks ago and he said that was wonderful!
Please keep my old pal, Rich Maes, in your thoughts and prayers. I promised him to post this. Maybe he will read it and comment.