05/05/2026
She thought she set herself back.
She went on vacation, stayed consistent, picked up her weights—and everything felt way heavier than it should have.
She pushed through… struggled… and her back flared up.
Turns out?
The weights were in kilos, not pounds.
She came back to me in pain, scared to move, already telling herself she was back to square one.
But here’s what stood out most:
It wasn’t her body deciding she couldn’t.
She had already decided that for it.
We didn’t jump into “fixing” anything.
We slowed things down.
We got her out of that heightened state.
We changed the story she was telling herself.
Then she picked up the trap bar.
Hesitant at first… but she did it.
For reps.
And then she started crying.
Not because it hurt—
but because she realized she could.
She told me she thought we were going to be stuck doing “easy rehab exercises” forever to get her back.
But she was never as far back as she thought.
Pain can be loud.
Fear can be convincing.
But neither one gets the final say.
Capability does.
And I cried too.
Because I know what it feels like to be in that place…
and to be told to stop instead of shown that you can.
This is the work.