Magnetic North Life

09/29/2023

04/28/2023

You know you have to do *something* to get better.

But right now it is so Hard. To. Get. Started.

You have some serious roadblocks.

Please let me help you look at these roadblocks from a different angle.

😎I can help you get off of the Emotional Roller Coaster
😎I can show you a RoadMap
😎I can offer assistance WITHOUT breaking the bank.

Please give yourself permission to reach out for a helping hand.

If you can summon up that courage, comment below “RoadBlocks” and I’ll help you figure out how to get started recovering from your divorce. You'll need to be brave enough to hop on a quick call with me. But I'll help you.

04/27/2023

Being really really clear, I NEVER ‘get’ hate! Why?
Because I understand my own emotions and I love myself.

“Hate” from others can only hurt me if I don’t love myself.

So if I even think I see hate, I scroll by, delete, laugh… whatever.
Not my circus, not my monkeys.

Some of you who are just starting your journey are hyper focused on what people are thinking of you, and you may think that you are on the receiving end of anger or hate.

Listen… not your circus, not your monkeys.
Focus on managing YOUR life.

Start with your Emotions, I’ll help you.

04/26/2023

Being Your Own Divorce Recovery Detective

There are so many strong, resilient, courageous Women (and Men), dealing with divorce recovery who are acting as their own divorce recovery detectives.

That’s GREAT! You are trying to take care of yourself!!!

But if you see any of those red flags, please consider reaching out to me for help.

Questions? Ask and I will answer.
Would you like to chat? Comment: Red Flags

04/25/2023

So here is the answer… you do TWO things:

You start by learning what TRAPS will keep you stuck, and
You start by making your Emotions your BEST FRIENDS instead of judging them!

🤔 Do you know what the traps are?
😶 Are you judging your emotions?

The beginning of your divorce recovery journey is the most difficult, duh.
And many many women stay stuck at the beginning because of their habits and beliefs that are keeping them there.

What do you think is trapping you?
What do you believe about your emotions?

Comment below.

And PS don’t forget to ask me about the Divorce Recovery Journey Roadmap

04/21/2023

Are You…

😔Stuck in overwhelm?
😒Just getting by?
😟Unable to connect with anyone?
🥺Not sleeping?
😭Feel like nobody understands?
‍🥵Feeling like you are losing your mind?

This is not how your life is meant to be lived and it is COSTING YOU.

Look, financial issues are a top priority for women who have gotten divorced, we are statistically prone to living in poverty. Truth.

But not INVESTING in your healing, with time and effort, is costing you LIFE!

How would you feel one year from today if everything was different…if you could take care of yourself and be independent all while you remain calm without beating yourself up?

I know it IS possible because I have walked dozens of my clients through this same process, working with them for 90 days.

If you are done living this way and want to know more, type “COSTING ME” in the comments and I will reach out.

If you aren’t done living this way, ask yourself,
“How Long Am I Going to Put Up with this Sh*t?”

04/20/2023

While there are obvious situations where a straight-up “NO” or “EF NO” is the only response to keep yourself safe, there are times where you may need to be a bit more diplomatic as you stand your ground.

Boundaries are important for your mental, emotional and physical wellbeing and are also a key success strategy to help you meet your goals, to master your emotions and to heal.

Example…if you are looking to improve yourself but there is someone or something getting in the way of that goal, you may need to start saying “no” BEFORE you are riled up and want to say “EF No”.

**(And watch out for people who know how to rile you up! That’s really important.)**

Here are some good ways to say no without hurting someone’s feelings or having to give a long, detailed explanation.

😎Sorry I need to prioritize rest right now.
😎Thanks for thinking of me but I don’t have the energy right now.😎I’m taking a break from overwhelm right now.
😎Thanks for the offer but I’m going in a different direction.
😎My plate is as full thank you for thinking of me though.

You don’t have to be fake, but softening your “no’ with a short explanation may help YOU feel easier.

If you find yourself having to defend yourself… mmmmm… may need to say “EF No!”

Do you have a “no” phrase that you have found works well for you? Share in the comments!