08/13/2026
There is a quiet moment most people who ride long enough eventually reach.
It’s not the finish line.
It’s the recognition that the bike has been rearranging how you see yourself.
David Comer didn’t arrive at cycling as a natural athlete. He talks about the body he once didn’t trust — the weight, the Crohn’s diagnosis, the years of not seeing himself as capable. Then the group rides. The steady wheels. The slow accumulation of miles that rewrote the story.
In this conversation we get into:
• How community can hold both high standards and wide doors
• What it means to sit near the back and learn the flow
• Fear showing up as anger (especially for men)
• Building a 450-member club without losing its soul
• Mentorship that waits for you at the back of the pack
Full episode is up now.
Watch: https://youtu.be/hQ9I5ljC0tw
Read the companion piece: https://www.philphails.com/episodes/violet-crown-david-comer-cycling-community-leadership/
What’s a moment the bike (or any hard practice) quietly changed how you see yourself?
David Comer, president of the Violet Crown Sports Association, join...