06/10/2026
Last week I found myself writing a lot of "Did you know?" statements, and I have another one to add—one that may be the most important of all:
Did you know that you can't do it alone?
What is the "it"?
Honestly, just about everything.
We like to think we are independent, self-sufficient, and capable of handling whatever life throws our way. And to some extent, we are. But the truth is that none of us gets very far without the support, encouragement, wisdom, kindness, and occasional reality checks of other people.
Every meaningful thing in my life has been touched by someone else's help. Teachers have guided me. Friends have listened. Family members have encouraged me. Students have inspired me. Even strangers have offered exactly what I needed at the right moment.
I know from my own experience as a teacher, student, friend, and mother that whenever I am tempted to isolate—or when I notice someone else moving in that same direction—it is often a sign that something is becoming challenging.
The wonderful thing about that challenge is that it can become a doorway.
When something inside us starts heating up, asking for attention, it is inviting us to engage with it. It needs to be fed in some way. We can feed it by isolating, turning it over and over in our own minds, giving it more weight and more power. Or we can liberate it by bringing it into the light and sharing it with another person.
When someone else sees it, hears it, and holds it with us, they often offer a perspective we could not see on our own. That fresh perspective can change everything. What felt impossible becomes manageable. What felt overwhelming becomes understandable. What felt lonely becomes shared.
We are built for connection. We learn from one another, lean on one another, and sometimes borrow a little courage from someone else until we can find our own.
So if you are struggling with something, consider reaching out. A conversation with a friend, a teacher, a family member, or even someone you barely know may be exactly what is needed. We were never meant to carry every burden alone, and sometimes the simple act of sharing what is true is enough to begin changing it.
