05/23/2026
On this Memorial Day Weekend, I wanted to pause & take a moment to acknowledge all who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country. When I became a Marine, the meaning & purpose of this weekend shifted. Before, it was the weekend marking the end of the school year & beginning of Summer's long, hot days in Texas.
I was fortunate to serve during times of peace & don't personally know anyone who I should be remembering. My husband, however, lost a very close friend in Iraq. The loss of his buddy, forever changed him & still impacts him today. I think for him, there doesn't need to be a Memorial Day. Every day is a day of remembrance that his friend is forever 22 & not getting to experience life on Earth.
Ironically, President Harry Truman proclaimed Memorial Day to also be a day of Prayer for Permanent Peace in 1950. I learned that TODAY. So, this year will be different as I intentionally bring that into my pause.
I will be doing a Loving Kindness Meditation, too. Visit the link in the bio to listen the one that I recorded for you back in January. Doing variations of Loving Kindness, or Maitrī, has been helpful on the days when our world feels like a lot & there's nothing that I can do to change it.
It's an ancient Buddhist practice that helps us to connect with compassion, kindness, & good will towards ourselves and others. It can also be a powerful form of self-care & collective healing & have a positive effect on stress, anxiety, health, & empathy.
UW-Madison did a study on the impact of compassion meditation on the brain. They found that it changed the activity in the Insula, which is one of the reasons I named the studio Insula Yoga (it also means island in Latin)..."The insula is extremely important in detecting emotions in general and specifically in mapping bodily responses to emotion — such as heart rate and blood pressure — and making that information available to other parts of the brain."
May you take time to pause this weekend to breathe & consider adding prayers for permanent peace. If more of us knew that Memorial Day holds duality in remembering deaths from war & praying for permanent peace, maybe we could inch closer to that grand reality.