05/13/2026
Is competition barbecue stressful?
This weekend we head to the 5th Massachusetts in May KCBS Competition.
After 2 solid weeks of sitting in a hospital as the woman who watched me take my first breath, gasped to take her last, I have never looked forward to a competetion more.
The last 2 weeks were stress. Our mother, grandmother, friend and biggest supporter passed away earlier this week. Without her love support and encouragement we wouldn’t be here today. Without her, my sons and I would not have existed. We would have never met the guys that comprise the Grumpy Old Patriot Barbeque team. In that way she was the actual founder of the Grumpy Old Patriot Barbeque team in addition to being a hell of a cook.
She had a unique way of keeping things in perspective. Her glass (of scotch) was always half full (maybe a quarter). We are hoping to channel her perspective this weekend.
Is barbecue stressful, I used to think so. Maybe it is. I’m really quite certain this weekend will be therapeutic.
If you are around the Wrentham American Legion and can stop by after 5:00 on Friday or Saturday come and raise a glass with me in her honor.
In the meantime cherish the time you have with the people you love. Otherwise who’s eating all the barbecue you cook.
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