R Jay's Farm Horsemanship Communication

R Jay's Farm Horsemanship Communication Welcome to R Jay's Farm Horsemanship Communication. Our goal is to increase our ability to communica

At R Jay's Farm we are focused on helping people teach their horses. We offer custom programs to help you work through problems as well as starting programs to make sure you don't run into problems in the first place. From basic ground manners to more advanced handling and riding. We will show you how easy it truly is to get a horse to do exactly what is expected of them using Natural Horsemanship Methods. With respect, love and kindness you will earn your horses trust and create a lasting bond.

https://youtu.be/MoxBenNzxIM?si=2N0JkqKNnq0Z5WWkThis may be informative to some of you. Hope you enjoy it.
09/17/2025

https://youtu.be/MoxBenNzxIM?si=2N0JkqKNnq0Z5WWk

This may be informative to some of you. Hope you enjoy it.

Sam is a well trained horse. but his need for humans was kinda lacking. minimal engagement and a desire to his own thing is the reason for going back to basi...

https://youtu.be/o4oXBcs8AEI?si=Uu_tCrquE8gM4Cl1This is day 3 of our 3 day restart of an OTTB. In this video you will se...
08/17/2025

https://youtu.be/o4oXBcs8AEI?si=Uu_tCrquE8gM4Cl1

This is day 3 of our 3 day restart of an OTTB. In this video you will see a very calm and sensible horse working with a little resistance.

The horse in this video is very different from what he was when I came to see him for the evaluation prior to starting this 3 day program. There is no head twirling or over reacting in any way anymore. He doesnt throw his head at you and bump you or push you with his nose or face.

We owe all that to allowing him to be heard. Not only showing him he has choices, but proving we hear them and providing those needs.

This is the last day of our 3 day OTTB restart. And I have to say, I didn't think getting this calm was going to come so soon. He looked and felt very relaxe...

https://youtu.be/DWUrHYzUppE?si=JPmSOLohFJa8BTOkThis is day 1 of 3 in our OTTB restart. Dust is coming along pretty well...
08/15/2025

https://youtu.be/DWUrHYzUppE?si=JPmSOLohFJa8BTOk

This is day 1 of 3 in our OTTB restart. Dust is coming along pretty well. I was asked to help with him because of his anxious energetic foolishness. He was not a horse that many would consider riding in that state.

I first met him a few weeks prior and did an evaluation. At that point, I wouldn't even have considered climbing on. It was a shared belief his last trainer had. In the evaluation i learned a lot about him. I believe what I learned about and what he learned about me that day made all the difference.

Stay tuned for days 2 and 3 to see just how much we can progress.

Dust is an off the track Thoroughbred who has been a bit anxious and untrustworthy. In this video, I am using a slow approach to minimize his nervousness. We...

No magic potion can give you this. But both are attainable. It's not instant, it's not magic. What it is, is knowledge a...
07/13/2025

No magic potion can give you this. But both are attainable. It's not instant, it's not magic. What it is, is knowledge and understanding. Practice and determinination. Learning to read thought and energy will give you more truth and understanding in a moment, than to hear a full explanation in words or in writing.

Real communication doesn't need words. If you can communicate in this way, you will be appreciated. If you are appreciated, having significance and straying humble, they will want to do what ever you ask of them. They will want to be a part of everything you do.

You both become connected on a deep intimate level that can never be explained. It has to be experienced.

It is attainable, But there are no shortcuts. You've got to put the time in. And you have to stop relying on methods, technique, cues and signals. Also you have to let go of any thoughts that hold you to a certain point of view. Keep your thoughts open to multiple possibilities. Only then will the truth reveal itself. Only then can both these things be attained.

If you could only pick ONE, which magic potion would you drink? :)

07/06/2025

This popped up as a memory. So I thought it would be good to share it again. Thanks for watching.

05/16/2025

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05/09/2025

This morning, I woke up compelled to write about the importance of Leveling Up.

Each and every day. We do our routines. Sometimes, it can be very mindlessly done. So habitually that we just go through the motions. For those who might be interested in improving or progressing in said activities. They will mindfully look for ways to make things better and naturally Level Up.

If we apply this to our horsemanship. It's easy to see when someone is just trying to apply a method or technique at its Basic Level. Many times we see people stay at that same Basic Beginner Level. Never realizing there is so much nuance to be applied.

If we work with our Horses and just think, "Well they're doing what I asked." And that is enough. We may never see the many ways to Level Up.

Such as. Is there any resistance present. If so, how do we help them remove it. This one thing alone is the master key to unlock almost everything you will ever achieve with your Horse.

I often see people lunging their horses. It's a common exercise pretty much everyone does. It is an important skill for us and our Horse for so many reasons. Sadly enough, so many think that Lunging is just a speed and direction exercise. But there is so much more to it than that. This exercise can create balance, supleness, cadence, distance, Draw, focus and many more things that don't have just one word definitions.

Watch someone lung their horse and look for weather the horses nose is in, out, up, down extended or over contracted. Then look at the shape of the body and see if the feet track, if the neck is bent in, out, up or down. Then the shoulder. Is it upright or leaning in. Then the hip. Is it closer to you than the shoulder or further away. Then look at the circle the horse travels. Is the horse drifting out, leaking in closer, or maybe both where they try to get away from something on one side and closer to something on the other. Causing the handler in the middle to slowly move their position. Next thing you know the location of the exercise isn't anywhere near where they started.

The above description is just some of the more noticeable ways to Level Up in a Lunging exercise. But it applies to all we might do with a Horse.

If you know me at all. You know I'm not a believer in a definitive Right and Wrong. Right an Wrong exists in all thing and situations simultaneously. It is never all of one and none of the other.

Anything we do. We are doing it wrong to a certain Level and we are doing right to a certain Level.

Ideally we would be looking at benefits and consequences. Again, like Right and Wrong. They both exist simultaneously together. It's important to recognize both so we can manage them. That will look different for each Person, Horse and Situation. And quite possibly from day to day, moment to moment.

The point of all this is. We Level Up by fixing or managing the parts that have consequences. And bringing the beneficial parts to fullness.

If you have an eye and a feel for resistance. You will know where the improvements will be needed. Then you will be able advance or Level Up.

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