02/18/2024
Don' Resist
Are you getting resistance, or are you creating it?
If you're getting resistance from the horse , don't let him talk you out of removing it. It's a trap he's laying that will keep you from achieving whatever comes next. He's content being uneducated and will do his best to remain so.
But what if the resistance is coming from you? There are three main ways that you yourself are creating resistance through self sabotage.
One, realizing that you're definitely going to get him trained to the next level by removing the resistance, and you're going to start tomorrow. Two, it is by doing too much with unreasonable pressure given the stage of training, thereby creating a resistant, angry, and anxious horse. And three is by not doing enough to even find resistance.
You'll only find resistance when you attempt to change the future. If all you want is a pasture pet, resistance will give you a free pass. This is often the most common mistake we as riders cling to. It's so much easier to settle. It takes way less effort and education. However, it's been my experience that a horses heart is not on the surface. You have to go inside to find it.
Now, let's break it down a little more as it pertains to horses. Some would think removing resistance is taking away their spirit and heart. In reality, the horse is hiding its heart from you by not letting you in. Only when resistance is removed can you truly find the depth of your horse. For me, if I can still find resistance, there's still more horse to find.
Don't confuse removing resistance to desensitization. Sure, they need to become accepting of many things, but don't take out their try. I've seen this happen, and unfortunately done it, and there's nothing left to work with. In fact, overly desensitized horses have the highest form of resistance. They don't care anymore.
So what does resistance feel like? What does it act like? What does resistance look like in a horse? The answer is that it depends.
On a hot horse, resistance feels like they're basically running off. It acts like impatience and anxiousness. It looks like a bug headed to a windshield. It's not gonna be pretty if you're the bug. Conversely, on a lazy horse, it's quite different. It feels like you can't get them to go. It acts like it doesn't want to do basic, relatively simple things. It feels like being stuck in the mud. Also, it's not pretty when you're the one behind pushing.
Both require discipline. So pick one. Pick a discipline that is more suited to their tendency, then go to work, removing the resistance that will get them to become manageable, willing, and trained to do what their gifts provide for them. Follow the guidelines and goals of that discipline. Even if you're not into a discipline, your horse needs to be. Pretend There is no such thing as recreational riding if you hope to train your horse. You need to have a vision of where you're going.
Obviously, these two examples are the extremes. Most horses are somewhere else in a rather large pasture of diverse talents and ever changing attitudes. I've never ridden two horses that are exactly alike out of the hundreds I've been fortunate to learn from. Are there some that will fit you better than others? They do me! Yet all have a place in the pasture.
The goal is to find a place of partnership with you as the managing partner. A middle ground where you can work together to achieve the dream you have for your horse, and then develop the horses willingness to let you have that dream. And both willing to adjust as you go. Things change. Adjusting is positive, quitting is not.
The greatest service you can provide for your horse beyond food, water, and shelter is to train him well by removing the resistance that's getting in the way. A broke horse will always have a good home.
Watch for future articles here at our Facebook business page, Craig Johnson Reining, for how to remove resistance. Also, subscribe to our YouTube channel, Ride With Craig Johnson, and watch as we go through the process periodically on various types of horses, discipline specific maneuvers, and transitions. We'll show you why and how to find resistance, then how to handle it in short, easy to follow clips and tips. Check out our website at craigjohnsonreining.com for complete training downloads that will help you build your dream horse from start to finish.