08/18/2026
I can't tell you how many times I have felt too hungry, sore, tired, grouchy, sad, anxious, busy, stressed out to workout. And how many times I wound up performing way better than I thought I would.
Case in point: yesterday I was sooooo close to skipping. And then I squatted 185 for the first time in a hot minute. Felt 😎
Yes, in the last few years, it was a different story. And yes that was an incredibly scary and confusing time for me to learn to navigate. Also keep in mind though that my activity levels have been extremely high for many, many years leading up to that.
Reality is if your lifestyle is mostly sedentary, the best thing you can do for your body is move more. Also, it's important to remember that in the first few weeks, your body is probably going to be a little more sore, tired, and generally unenthusiastic about it. It needs time to adapt.
One of the greatest things regularly exercising can do for you is exposing yourself to discomfort. Specifically discomfort that is mostly within your control. Not only will you develop a higher threshold for discomfort in general, but you will learn to better interpret your body's chatter.
Do you really feel tired and need rest? Or would taking your mind off your job and family and life for a hour or so to focus on yourself actually do more for you? The only person that truly can know the answer to that is you. But if you don't regularly assess and learn about yourself, how can you ever really know what your body needs? Especially if nothing ever seems to help.
As I come back from and live with chronic nerve pain, I often have to remind myself that I can trust my body and my judgement again. And that if I overstep, I won't completely set myself back. I have continued to try to understand my body and therefore I can navigate in a way I couldn't before. You can, too. You are so much stronger than you think you are. And your body is capable of some truly amazing things.
But seriously, learn to lift weights. Start small. Gain confidence. Learn about your body. Stop playing small.