01/26/2026
Privilege dictates politics. And “privilege” isn’t necessarily a bad word. It’s how you wield it that matters.
Let’s be honest, none of us have the capacity to care about ALL the tragedies happening across the world right now. We’re not built for it. So we have to choose the battles we’re capable of fighting and willing to fight. With that said, I acknowledge the privilege I have in not having to fight every fight, and I’ve been called out for it.
Something I believe in and I tell my clients often is that during times of uncertainty and chaos, we need to train our nervous systems. I think of it like weight training - picking up the heaviness of the day and then putting it back down. If you hold the weight for too long, you’ll become fatigued quicker. You’ll do one rep instead of building the strength and resilience needed to do more. And that’s the balance. Holding the heaviness of injustice but also putting it down so we don’t burn ourselves out. Pick it up and put it down.
On the other hand, I see how privilege can keep people blinded to said heaviness. If you don’t know people of color, people in poverty, or people from other cultures or countries, I imagine you feel quite safe and comfortable. It’s understandable how your priorities are your family, your friends, and your finances. I won’t tell you to do anything differently, but consider when our kids, nieces, and nephews learn about this time in school and they ask what you did or where you stood.
As I feel called to move more towards the coaching world, I hope I never lose my foundation rooted in social work and social justice. I don’t see many coaches speaking on the current state of our country, and I see their privileged perspective. Instead of judging them though, I see the importance in making my stance known. So here we are.
I don’t expect others to share my truth, but I hope some do 🙏✨