02/08/2019
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We, especially us women, are too damn hard on ourselves. We get down on ourselves if we aren't a size 4, or if we don't have a "flat stomach" or a thigh gap, or aren't just "perfect." But let me tell you, perfection isn't reality- it's just not! Even those people you see on tv or magazines who appear to be perfect have flaws.
Here is my example. These two pictures were taken within minutes of each other. Same outfit, different pose. Don't get down on yourself because you don't "look like someone else." Let me tell you, most of the time people don't even look like themselves! Sure, my stomach is getting flatter and my obliques may show on a good day, but guess what?! The second I sit down, there are still some rolls and fluff. WHO CARES?! I know that I am healthy and fit.
I don't wear a size 4, or even a 8 for that matter. I have hips and a butt, and that's the way it is. I don't have a thigh gap, sometimes my legs rub together when I run. And yes, my stomach has some rolls and fluff.
Why do I say all of this? I say it to show you that everyone is different and everyone has a "highlight reel." Don't compare your "normal" to someone else's highlight. Hell, don't compare yourself at all. You are you. Love yourself for that. Take care of your body, move, and fuel it with nutrition. THAT is what matters, not a size on a tag or a number on a scale. Love yourself and your body. Live healthy, live happy.