09/04/2026
F**K BEING THE GOOD GIRL
As a desi woman, I did almost EVERYTHING you were supposed to do.
I was in every single after school activity (Girl Scouts, student council, Indian dance, volunteering, etc)
I got good grades (I graduated college with a 3.8 GPA)
I had the accolades of working in Fortune 500s and government agencies.
I had a successful freelancing business.
But….i wasn’t married, which is the only thing an Indian girl is good for.
For years I was tying my self worth to the fact I was single with no kids.
I wasn’t seen as “the high achieving Indian girl with all these amazing accomplishments”.
I was seen as “the Indian girl who is a failure cause she’s not married”
I was no longer the good girl that brought a “good name to the family”, I was the outcast “that can’t fit in to our group of married friends with kids”
Here’s the truth:
I never fit in.
I was the only desi weirdo alt chick that listened to emo music instead of hip hop.
That rather collect crystals instead of Pokémon cards.
Dance in the rain than in the club.
Rather snuggle up on my couch watching bad tv than partying it up and hooking up with a weird rando.
This is who I am:
Certified Reiki Level II practitioner, Psychic, Transformational Guide and Healer
All things witchy and woo woo.
I see chakras in the 5D and the blocks as well. I also move energy around in my clients to create the highest reality for them as well!
I love emo and alt rock from the 2000s.
Grounding and dancing are my two favorite activities.
I love warm weather but this Texas heat ain’t it!
I fully believe in the law of assumption. You assume your reality you watch come to life.
I am for inclusivity and equality in all of my work.
I don’t believe in announcing anything until the deal is sealed (which is why you never saw me launch a relationship on social media)
Love beaches and all things ocean related.
I love chai and a good gluten free and vegan donut. (Can’t stand coffee)
Over the past few years I really love doing things for me.
What good girl belief are you shattering? Let me know below 👇🏽