10/06/2024
Remember to Live
John was killed fighting on the frontlines of Ukraine last week. The hole he left is massive and the my soul feels unable to comprehend a world without him. He impacted all those he touched deeply just by being who he was. He was willing to give up his own peace and comfort here in the US so that others half way around the world he never met had a chance to experience what it felt like. John was a man, a friend and a brother unlike any other.
"Every Man Dies, Not every man really lives." That was one of Johns favorite quotes, and he embodied it with his life. John was a true Ronin. He believed in the ethos and gave everything to embody it and share it with others. Ronin would have not been possible, or had been the community it was without him. It was a shared vision and I'll forever owe him a debt of gratitude for being the spark that ignited the flame and the rock that held through the tough times.
John had been fighting for the last 6 months in the places in Ukraine you see on the news daily. He was sent on a mission to secure the last road out of a city being overrun to allow people to evacuate. In doing so, John and a small squad came against a force that was bigger than anyone expected and there were no reinforcements. John held his position, fighting for over 24hrs, through helicopter attacks, aerial drone strikes and infantry assaults until he was killed. He gave his life so that as others could live.
The pain and grief of his loss feels unreal. It's often the ones who mean the most that you take for granted. They are the foundation on which everything is built. The air you breath that you don't even think about. His loss feels unbearable.
Hug and appreciate your loved ones. Let whatever it was in Johns spirit that lit you up carry on in you so that his spirit can continue on and...remember to live, to really live. Life is a temporary gift. Use it. Embrace it. To its fullest. For John.
Travis
(If you feel led to, there is a gofundme here to help bring John back to the US. His remains are still lying where he fell as his body is behind enemy lines. There is a group of people raising funds to support his return and for causes he felt passionate about.)
If you'd like to connect, share memories of John, or need anything at all- please feel free to do so here for all to see- or you if you'd like to connect personally- you can reach me at [email protected] or 425-578-4774 as I am not on Facebook.
Thank you all for being a part of the community that John was so proud to have been a part of creating. It was his why in life for many years. Share the joy, love and strength he gave to each of us.
Travis
(& Deanne Richardson Ramsey )
https://www.givesendgo.com/justice-for-john?fbclid=IwY2xjawFxog1leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHVQIYzuO-EvY8vV0OKEggZo14J-6U94bVDfcddEwT2wBv3yD0cMmfTA4CA_aem_rgE16FQfeXjk7R7gBGlOKg