09/03/2026
Thursday Thoughts from the tatami.
“In general, our behavior is controlled by two things: what we want and what we fear. What is it that uke wants to do? Align with that. And consider what it is you fear (and why you are standing so far away).” — Aikido Exercises for Teaching and Training
Desire pulls. Fear pushes. Between the two, we can spend an impressive amount of life being herded around without noticing who has the reins.
Aikido makes the arrangement wonderfully difficult to hide.
Uke wants something. Instead of arguing with that intention, we meet it, join it, and discover where it naturally leads. Meanwhile, our own fear may be whispering, “Perhaps we could practice harmony from over here… several feet away.”
But distance does not always create safety, and resistance does not always create control.
Budō asks us to become curious about both sides of the encounter: What are they seeking? What am I avoiding? Once those become clear, possibility opens.
Meet what comes.
Examine what retreats.
Somewhere between the two, there is practice.
Title: Bingo Province: Abuto, Kannon Temple
Artist: Utagawa Hiroshige
Date: 1853