06/05/2024
To be honest, I haven’t felt that great in my body during pregnancy this time around. I overall just feel bigger, less fit, I’m 2 years older than last time, and for whatever reason I just don’t feel “the glow” as much as before.
But this is ok. We don’t always need to be in a place of feeling amazing in our bodies. It’s normal and natural for our feelings toward our bodies to change over time.
Rather than fight these feelings, we can accept them and work with them.
Here are a few things I’m doing to remain loving toward myself and my body even during a tougher phase (hoping this might help you):
✨ remembering this is temporary — our bodies, especially as women, will change 1000x during our lives.
✨emphasizing the insane amount of gratitude I have toward my body and everything she’s doing so well right now. Even though my body is changing in ways that sometimes make me uncomfortable, I’m so incredibly amazed.
✨cobbling together clothes that make me feel pretty good — maybe not incredible, but as good as I can feel. From friends and family, buying a few new things. I’m a huge believer in getting clothes that make us feel good in whatever phase we’re in.
✨ remembering my worth is never ever tied to my body size or shape. knowing I’m still loved, I’m still valuable, I’m still appreciated, I’m still all the things — and none of that changes as my body does.
✨ saying I love you and Thank you to my body, often. other than a few moments of complaining about my body (which is also important to do!! We need to vent and be honest about our real feelings), I work on finding the love and gentleness.
Hope this helps if anyone else is in a tough body image phase. It’s okay. It’s normal. Show yourself some love if you can. 😘