EBCI Domestic Violence - Sexual Assault Program

09/07/2026

Thank you for all you do. ❤️

This (and every day), we're grateful for the labor of domestic violence advocates supporting survivors across the country. Many of these advocates are also survivors themselves. 🧡

Advocates deserve to do their jobs safely and sustainably. The programs where they work deserve to be properly funded and resourced.

Share this post if you agree — and help us today!

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09/03/2026

You deserve to feel safe. 💜

Your safety matters, and you deserve support that honors who you are and what you’ve experienced. StrongHearts Native Helpline is here to listen, support with safety planning, and connect you with resources.

📞 Call or text 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483)
💻 Chat at strongheartshelpline.org

09/03/2026

📅 Mark your calendars: 9/8 is ! Join the nationwide effort to raise awareness about the 988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline and promote accessible mental health support. This year's theme, "988 Reasons: Your reason is reason enough," is a reminder that you don't have to be in crisis to reach out. Whatever you're facing - big or small - your reason for seeking support is reason enough. Learn more and find out how to get involved at samhsa.gov/988Day.

08/31/2026

08/31/2026

https://www.domesticshelters.org/mobile-apps-for-victims-and-survivors?fbclid=IwdGRjcAUCghpwZG9mBWZkaWQWUNgAQUAKZnsK9tqUJHiLJMebC1_9nmV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR7GrTLyYf9j_mUsgJ0RWOii3CnmKyAJ9iK-Np7prsLF1JpTRCh8aqlX8GGlfA_aem_B8b4k81tS6ocr5jnlM7FYw

Recommended apps to support victims and survivors of domestic violence, as well as intimate partner violence or family violence professionals such as advocates. These apps help document abuse, monitor safety, record calls, assess relationships and co-parent in shared custody arrangements.

08/27/2026

If you feel like you have to “go numb” just to get through a conversation… that’s a sign something isn’t right. 🟣💜

The grey rock method is a way to protect yourself from someone who feeds on reactions: you keep your answers neutral, brief, and boring so there’s nothing for them to latch onto. In some abusive situations, that lack of emotional fuel can lower the chance of escalation in the moment and help you get through an interaction more safely.

But it’s not a long-term fix—and it can come with risks. If shutting down emotionally feels like your only option, it may be time to lean on outside support and build a safety plan.

Have you ever tried staying “neutral” with someone who wanted a reaction—what did you notice? 🧠🕯️

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08/25/2026

If you’ve ever thought, “Wait… is this abuse?” this one visual can make everything click. 🧩

Many survivors say the first time they saw the Power and Control Wheel, their experience finally had a name—and a pattern. It lays out common tactics abusers use (like isolation, intimidation, emotional abuse, and controlling money), showing that harm isn’t only physical.

This guide also shares how different versions of the Wheel have been created for different communities and situations, helping more people recognize what’s happening and realize they’re not alone. 💜

What’s one sign you wish more people understood can be part of abuse? Comment below or share this with someone who might need it. 🗣️

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08/25/2026

Trauma can explain someone’s struggles. Mental illness can explain symptoms. A difficult childhood can leave scars. But none of them gives someone permission to control, terrorize, or hurt another person.

**What excuse were you told to make for their abuse?**

08/19/2026

Anyone can choose to perpetrate domestic violence, and anyone can be a victim — including men.

While domestic violence services in the United States are available to all victims and survivors, some men may believe that the abuse they experienced wasn't "real," or they may fear they won't be believed if they reach out for help.

Everyone deserves to be safe in their relationships, including men. Learn more in our FAQs about domestic violence: https://buff.ly/nG2VPu4

[Image description: Against a purple background, white text reads: "Frequently Asked Questions about Domestic Violence. Are men victims of domestic violence? Yes, anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, including men. The CDC estimates that millions of men are victimized by a partner during their lives. Some male victims fear they won’t be believed, or they may not know that resources, help, and support are available for them. Everyone deserves to be safe. Power, control, and violence impact all of us, and we all play a role in creating better, safer communities." NNEDV logo below. The NNEDV logo consists of 66 small house shapes arranged in a large house shape, and text reading: "NNEDV National Network to End Domestic Violence."]