02/29/2024
My mother passed away Feb 6, 2024 and her funeral was on Feb 27th, 2024. My brother Eddie, was not there at the funeral. He lived with our mother for 30 years, and took care of mother since 2014. My sisters will say, thank you for taking good care of mom these last 25 years, but I say these last 7 years cause mom did their house chores and laundry and dishes and took care of them. As mom grew older and her needs changed Eddie and Linda did not know how to take care of her progressive and end stage of Dementia. They did not do the right thing and get her hospice for her end stage of life to give her peace to pass. I appreciate what they have done through the years for mom, but let me tell you what they did to me and my father. These last three years of my mothers life. They ignored me and my Dad when we called to talk to mom. They never called us back so we could say hello to her and talk to her even when she asked for me which family said she did. They denied her her rights and free will. Eddie and Linda took away mine and my father's time with her and its something that has hurt me deep down in my heart and its something I will never forget. I dont know what what my father and I did to be treated so cruel. Mom loves us and we love her. I remember three years ago I was going to California to see Mom, and Linda told Terry they where going to meet me at a Park to see her for 10 minutes and leave. Bobbi stepped in and made arrangements at her mother in laws Jackie's home for me to see her everyday for a week for three hours a day, so I could visit with mom. Eddie and Linda brought mom and Terry and George stayed there with us to shaparone. Eddie and Linda left early and didn't keep there promises. My sisters would say be grateful you got to see mom. I am grateful I got to see mom but it was hasty the way I was treated. I remember while I was visiting at Jackie's with mom and she could not speak, but she had something very important to tell me. With all her will, she said bad heart and pointed at Linda and she said good heart and pointed at my brother Eddie. She knew it was wrong how they were treating me and she wanted me to know it.
Bobbie got Mom the last of January 2024. Eddie dropped her off and didn't look back, and didn't call her to say goodbye. After he dropped her off, she passed in 6 days. During this time, Bobbi called me before she passed, and let me and my father say our goodbyes. I really appreciate Bobbies kind heart. She and I were texting when my mom passed away. I believe God gave mom to Bobbi so she could give my father and I the opportunity to talk with her. Bobbie provided mom with the right care she deserved with nurses and hospice and gave her peace to pass. I want to say thank you Bobbie from the bottom of my heart for doing all the right things for mom. If it had not been for Bobbi taking care of Mom, In her last 6 six days, and if Eddie had her, my father and I would never get the opportunity to say our goodbyes. Bobbi said mom was restless and in pain but when she heard my Dads voice she relaxed closed her eyes and took a nap. Bobbie will be blessed from the God's above and I know when Mom left this earth she had peace hearing me and my Dad again and now she is smiling.
